R\u00fczg\u00e2rs\u0131z\u00a0havalar\u0131 sevmiyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00fct\u00fcn f\u0131r\u0131ldaklar d\u00f6nmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor\u2026\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7enlerde eski kitaplar\u0131m\u0131 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken bir \u015fey tak\u0131ld\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcme. Sayfalar\u0131n aras\u0131nda, y\u0131llar \u00f6nce ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir not, sanki \u201cgel, beni oku\u201d der gibi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131 beni.<\/p>\n
K\u00e2\u011f\u0131d\u0131 elime ald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, kendi yaz\u0131mla yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u015fu c\u00fcmle \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ma: \u201cEski bir Eskimo atas\u00f6z\u00fc der ki:<\/b><\/p>\n
\u2018\u2018R\u00fczg\u00e2rs\u0131z\u00a0havada d\u00f6nen f\u0131r\u0131lda\u011f\u0131n, mutlaka bir \u00fcfleyeni vard\u0131r.\u201d<\/b><\/p>\n
\u0130lk okudu\u011fumda basit bir c\u00fcmle gibi geldi, ama durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcnce, bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn i\u00e7inde ne kadar derin bir anlam yatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ettim.<\/p>\n
Sanki hayat\u0131n her k\u00f6\u015fesine dokunan, bize bir \u015feyler anlatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir mesaj gibi.<\/p>\n
O g\u00fcn bu atas\u00f6z\u00fc \u00fcst\u00fcne epey kafa yordum ve \u015fimdi de sizinle bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerimi payla\u015fmak istiyorum.<\/p>\n
Buyurun, bir bardak \u00e7ay al\u0131n, sohbet havas\u0131nda laflayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Bu atas\u00f6z\u00fc ilk bak\u0131\u015fta do\u011fadan bir g\u00f6zlem gibi duruyor, de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n
R\u00fczgar\u00a0yoksa ve f\u0131r\u0131ldak d\u00f6n\u00fcyorsa, demek ki bir \u015fey onu hareket ettiriyor.<\/p>\n
Ama i\u015fin asl\u0131, bu s\u00f6z sadece f\u0131r\u0131ldakla ya da r\u00fczgarla s\u0131n\u0131rl\u0131 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n
Hayat\u0131n her alan\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kan bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi f\u0131s\u0131ld\u0131yor bize:<\/p>\n
G\u00f6r\u00fcnenin \u00f6tesinde bir neden, bir etki hep var.<\/p>\n
Bazen hayat\u0131m\u0131zda olup bitenleri tesad\u00fcfe ba\u011fl\u0131yoruz ya, i\u015fte bu atas\u00f6z\u00fc diyor ki, \u201cDur bir dakika, \u00f6yle hemen tesad\u00fcf deyip ge\u00e7me, bir bak bakal\u0131m, o f\u0131r\u0131lda\u011f\u0131 kim \u00fcfl\u00fcyor?\u201d<\/p>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Hayat\u0131n Tesad\u00fcfleri \u00dczerine<\/b><\/p>\n
Mesela g\u00fcnl\u00fck hayatta hepimizin ba\u015f\u0131na geliyor: Bir \u015fey oluyor ve \u201cAa, ne tesad\u00fcf!\u201d diyoruz.<\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7en hafta mesela, tam i\u015f yerinde bir i\u015fi yeti\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, birden bir arkada\u015f\u0131m arad\u0131 ve tam ihtiyac\u0131m olan bir bilgiyi verdi.<\/p>\n
\u0130lk anda \u201cNe \u015fans!\u201d dedim i\u00e7imden. Ama sonra durdum, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n
Acaba bu ger\u00e7ekten \u015fans m\u0131yd\u0131, yoksa o arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131n beni daha \u00f6nce dinlemi\u015f olmas\u0131, neye ihtiyac\u0131m oldu\u011funu fark etmesi miydi o f\u0131r\u0131lda\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nd\u00fcren?<\/p>\n
Belki de tesad\u00fcf dedi\u011fimiz \u015fey, asl\u0131nda birilerinin \u00fcflemesiyle harekete ge\u00e7en bir olaylar zinciri.<\/p>\n
Bu atas\u00f6z\u00fc bana \u015funu \u00f6\u011fretti:<\/p>\n
Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda ne oluyorsa, bir sebebi var. O y\u00fczden olaylar\u0131 y\u00fczeysel g\u00f6rmek yerine, biraz derine inip \u201cNeden?\u201d diye sormak laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n
\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u0130\u015f Hayat\u0131nda F\u0131r\u0131lda\u011f\u0131n \u00dcfleyeni<\/b><\/p>\n
\u0130\u015f hayat\u0131na gelince, bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn de\u011feri bir ba\u015fka ortaya \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Diyelim ki bir projede beklenmedik bir ba\u015far\u0131 yakalad\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
Ekip olarak alk\u0131\u015flar\u0131 topluyorsunuz, herkes \u201cNe g\u00fczel oldu!\u201d diyor.<\/p>\n
Ama bu ba\u015far\u0131y\u0131 sadece \u015fansa ba\u011flamak ne kadar do\u011fru?<\/p>\n
Belki de o ba\u015far\u0131, gecenin bir vakti uyumay\u0131p \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir ekip \u00fcyesinin eme\u011fiyle geldi.<\/p>\n
Ya da tam zaman\u0131nda ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z bir karar, o f\u0131r\u0131lda\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6nd\u00fcren \u00fcfleme oldu.<\/p>\n
Ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde, bir \u015fey ters gitti\u011finde de su\u00e7u hemen d\u0131\u015f etkenlere atmak kolay.<\/p>\n
\u201cPiyasa k\u00f6t\u00fcyd\u00fc, m\u00fc\u015fteri anlamad\u0131!\u201d deyip ge\u00e7iyoruz.<\/p>\n
Ama durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsek, belki bizim eksik b\u0131rakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir \u015fey vard\u0131.<\/p>\n
Hatalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 aramak, o \u00fcfleyeni bulmak demek.<\/p>\n
Bu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131, i\u015f hayat\u0131nda bizi daha dikkatli, daha sorgulay\u0131c\u0131 yapmaya yar\u0131yor bence.<\/b><\/p>\n
Sizlere Gelecekte G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek \u00dczerine Meydan Okuyorum.<\/p>\n
Orada G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015felim…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
R\u00fczg\u00e2rs\u0131z\u00a0havalar\u0131 sevmiyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc b\u00fct\u00fcn f\u0131r\u0131ldaklar d\u00f6nmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor\u2026\u00a0 Ge\u00e7enlerde eski kitaplar\u0131m\u0131 kar\u0131\u015ft\u0131r\u0131rken bir \u015fey tak\u0131ld\u0131 g\u00f6z\u00fcme. Sayfalar\u0131n aras\u0131nda, y\u0131llar \u00f6nce ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir not, sanki \u201cgel, beni oku\u201d der gibi \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131 beni. K\u00e2\u011f\u0131d\u0131 elime ald\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, kendi yaz\u0131mla yaz\u0131lm\u0131\u015f \u015fu c\u00fcmle \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ma: \u201cEski bir Eskimo atas\u00f6z\u00fc der ki: \u2018\u2018R\u00fczg\u00e2rs\u0131z\u00a0havada d\u00f6nen f\u0131r\u0131lda\u011f\u0131n, mutlaka bir \u00fcfleyeni vard\u0131r.\u201d \u0130lk okudu\u011fumda […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":97065,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-97742","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-safak-genc"],"views":272,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97742","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97742"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97742\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97065"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97742"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97742"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97742"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}