{"id":96106,"date":"2025-04-13T10:39:36","date_gmt":"2025-04-13T07:39:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=96106"},"modified":"2025-04-13T10:39:36","modified_gmt":"2025-04-13T07:39:36","slug":"iyi-ki-cocugum-yok-diye-sevinecek-hale-geldim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2025\/04\/13\/iyi-ki-cocugum-yok-diye-sevinecek-hale-geldim\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2018\u0130Y\u0130 K\u0130 \u00c7OCU\u011eUM YOK\u2019 D\u0130YE SEV\u0130NECEK HALE GELD\u0130M!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Aman yarabbi\u00a0bir \u00e7ocuk hi\u00e7\u00a0susmaz m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Ya da apartmanlar\u0131n \u00fcst kat\u0131 niye var?<\/p>\n<p>Ya da \u00fcst kat var i\u00e7inde, neden kom\u015fu denen garip varl\u0131klar ya\u015famaya \u00e7aba g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsan \u00e7ocu\u011fu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fckretmeli mi?<\/p>\n<p>Hayat boyu bitmeyecek korkun\u00e7\u00a0bir sorumluluk.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00fcrekli \u00e7ocu\u011fun durumunu, hayat\u0131n\u0131, gelece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn, bu durum\u00a0sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131\u00a0insan\u0131\u00a0bile anksiyete hastas\u0131\u00a0yapar.<\/p>\n<p>Her hareketi yaparken iki kere d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00a0benim bildi\u011fim.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden bir hareket yapars\u0131n\u00a0ve\u00a0\u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn biter.<\/p>\n<p>Rabbim sana\u00a0sonsuz \u015f\u00fck\u00fcrler ki,\u00a0\u00e7ocu\u011fum yok.<\/p>\n<p>Biz \u00e7ocuk yapt\u0131k deyip bakmayan ve umursamayan s\u00fcr\u00fcyle meczup var ve bu meczuplar toplumda meczup olarak an\u0131lm\u0131yorlar, ama sen bakamayaca\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuk yapmamay\u0131 se\u00e7ersen meczup olarak anarlar seni.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnyay\u0131\u00a0k\u00fcresel Siyonist\u00a0pagan bir \u00e7etenin y\u00f6netti\u011fi ger\u00e7e\u011fine ula\u015fmasayd\u0131m \u00fcreyebilirdim, g\u00f6n\u00fcl rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0ile.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye&#8217;de \u00e7o\u011fu ki\u015fi bu konuda\u00a0ezbere konu\u015fuyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fu olup \u201cKe\u015fke yapmasayd\u0131m\u201d diyen o\u00a0kadar \u00e7ok ki ya\u015fl\u0131larda.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc\u00a0ya\u015flan\u0131nca bana bakar mant\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0ile \u00e7ocuk yap\u0131p, bayramda bile u\u011framay\u0131nca hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0ya\u015f\u0131yorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Kendisine gelecek g\u00fcvencesi olmas\u0131\u00a0i\u00e7in \u00e7ocuk yapan bencillerin \u00fclkesi buras\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcstelik art\u0131k ergenlerin \u00e7o\u011fu \u00e7akma psikologlar\u0131n dolduru\u015fu ile \u00f6zg\u00fcven ad\u0131\u00a0alt\u0131nda ailesine \u00e7emkiriyor, istedi\u011fin kadar iyi yeti\u015ftir birde sosyal \u00e7evre ve sosyal medya var.<\/p>\n<p>Hepsinin a\u011fz\u0131nda, \u2018\u2018Do\u011fmay\u0131\u00a0ben istemedim ama beni do\u011furmay\u0131\u00a0sen istedin; yap\u0131caks\u0131n, al\u0131caks\u0131n, kar\u0131\u015famazs\u0131n\u2026\u2019\u2019gibi s\u00f6zler var.<\/p>\n<p>Mad Max Coming\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Takip ediyor musunuz bilmiyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Putin art\u0131k\u00a0a\u00e7\u0131k s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor, d\u00fcnyay\u0131\u00a0pedofili manyaklar\u0131n\u0131n\u00a0y\u00f6netti\u011fini.<\/p>\n<p>Koca Rus\u00a0devletinin ba\u015f\u0131,\u00a0d\u00fcnyan\u0131n 2 numaras\u0131\u00a0bunu a\u00e7\u0131kl\u0131yor da, gel de cahil c\u00fchelaya\u00a0anlat.<\/p>\n<p>Ka\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n anne babas\u0131\u00a0\u015fu dedi\u011finiz gibiydi?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmekten uykular\u0131\u00a0ka\u00e7t\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Bu da g\u00fczel hikayeymi\u015f\u00a0ye\u011fen.<\/p>\n<p>Hayat\u0131\u00a0berbat etmekten ba\u015fka g\u00f6revi olmayan insanlar, \u00e7o\u011fumuzun ebeveyni,\u00a0sen ne sa\u00e7malam\u0131\u015f\u0131n, baya\u011f\u0131\u00a0ilgin\u00e7 olmu\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk ekecek tohumu olmayan birinin s\u00f6ylemidir\u00a0bu.<\/p>\n<p>Ke\u015fke otuz-k\u0131rk\u00a0y\u0131l \u00f6nce do\u011fsayd\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>\u015eu\u00a0an ne yapmak istesen maliyetli\u00a0ve ula\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 zor.<\/p>\n<p>D\u00fcnya biraz daha g\u00fczel bir yer olsayd\u0131, \u00e7ocuk yapma hevesim kesinlikle olurdu.<\/p>\n<p>Gidi\u015fat a\u015f\u0131r\u0131\u00a0k\u00f6t\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>Bu saatten sonra d\u00fcnyaya \u00e7ocuk getirmek ona yap\u0131lacak en b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck olur\u00a0\u015fahsi kanaatimce.<\/p>\n<p>On\u00a0be\u015f\u00a0ya\u015f\u0131na gelsin,\u00a0ergenli\u011fin en azg\u0131n d\u00f6nemlerinde sana k\u00fcf\u00fcr\u00fc bi \u00e7aks\u0131n,\u00a0ondan sonra g\u00f6r\u00fcr\u00fcm y\u00fcz\u00fcnde ki, \u201c\u0130yi\u00a0ki de \u00e7ocu\u011fum var\u2019\u2019\u00a0g\u00fcl\u00fcc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hep bebek olarak kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u00a0san\u0131yo galiba.<\/p>\n<p>Cinnet ge\u00e7irip \u00e7ocu\u011funu \u00f6ld\u00fcren babalar da bir zamanlar, \u201cBir g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemesi yetiyo\u201d diyodu.<\/p>\n<p>Ama normal,\u00a0\u015fa\u015f\u0131rm\u0131yorum hep hamur yemekten insanlar\u0131n beyni eridi.<\/p>\n<p>Sevgi, Sayg\u0131 Olmadan Bir Hi\u00e7tir!<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmeyi bilmeyen, e\u011fitimsiz bir aile elinde, sokak a\u011fz\u0131\u00a0ile b\u00fcy\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f\u00a0\u00e7ocuklardan bahsediyorsan emin ol \u00f6yle b\u00fcy\u00fcmeyecek.<\/p>\n<p>Gerekti\u011finde disiplinin de ne oldu\u011funu bilecek.<\/p>\n<p>Kendi hayat\u0131m\u0131\u00a0yoluna koymadan b\u00f6yle bir \u015fey isteme hakk\u0131m yoktu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fumun gelece\u011fi i\u00e7in her ay kenara \u00fc\u00e7 be\u015f\u00a0bi\u015fey at\u0131yorum \u015fimdiden g\u00fczel bir mebla\u011f\u00a0olu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>O para ile gelecekte istedi\u011fi \u00fcni\u2019de okur hayat\u0131na istedi\u011fi gibi y\u00f6n verir.<\/p>\n<p>Ama bu g\u00fczel fikirmi\u015f.<\/p>\n<p>Tamam ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131\u00a0ve de\u011ferli bir insan olup sayg\u0131\u00a0g\u00f6rebilmek i\u00e7in, hemen bir kar\u0131\u00a0bulup i\u00e7ine spermimi b\u0131rakay\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Geri zek\u00e2l\u0131l\u0131ktan\u00a0de\u011fil, refahtan kaynaklan\u0131yor bu tip s\u00f6ylemler.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk yapman\u0131n sosyolojik sebeplerini do\u011fru\u00a0belirlemek laz\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>E\u011flenecekleri, hayatta vakit ge\u00e7irip, zevk alabilecekleri onlarca alan var.<\/p>\n<p>Bisiklet ile\u00a0\u015fehirler aras\u0131 turu yapmaktan, u\u00e7akla\u00a0gezebilecekleri her \u00fclkeye\u00a0gidebilmek gibi.<\/p>\n<p>Maddi imkanlar ve sosyal zenginli\u011fin\u00a0be\u015fer\u00ee\u00a0ya\u015fama etkisi \u00e7ok y\u00fcksek.<\/p>\n<p>Ezc\u00fcmle, do\u011fu toplumlar\u0131nda\u00a0daha din sava\u015flar\u0131\u00a0devam edip, orta \u00e7a\u011f\u0131\u00a0ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131\u00a0i\u00e7in tek e\u011flence ve ula\u015fabildi\u011fi\u00a0zevk ve zihinsel geli\u015fmi\u015flik,\u00a0seks ve t\u00fcrevleri \u00fczerinedir.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2018Zengin paras\u0131yla, fakir kar\u0131s\u0131yla\u2026\u2019\u2019 diye bo\u015funa dememi\u015fler diye\u00a0de \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcrler bir de!<\/p>\n<p>Telefonundan, teknolojisine A\u2019dan Z\u2019ye her konuda kendini geli\u015ftirip, sana iki\u00a0iphone paras\u0131na\u00a0bir kamyon elma satt\u0131\u011f\u0131n adama geri zek\u00e2l\u0131\u00a0deme, bu s\u0131fat tam anlam\u0131yla hakk\u0131n\u0131 vermiyor!<\/p>\n<p>Onlar\u0131n bak\u0131\u015f\u00a0a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan da biz ultra geri zek\u00e2l\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Ki bu daha olas\u0131\u00a0ve temele dayanan bir \u00f6rneklem olurdu.<\/p>\n<p>Ben elli\u00a0be\u015f\u00a0ya\u015f\u0131nday\u0131m, hala da istemiyorum \u00e7ocuk.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018\u2018Bi g\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fc\u00a0yok mu\u2019\u2019\u00a0hikayeleriyle kimseyi kand\u0131ramazs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk bir\u00a0g\u00fclerse y\u00fcz\u00a0a\u011flar!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sizlere Gelecekte G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmek \u00fczerine Meydan Okuyorum. Orada G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015felim&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aman yarabbi\u00a0bir \u00e7ocuk hi\u00e7\u00a0susmaz m\u0131? Ya da apartmanlar\u0131n \u00fcst kat\u0131 niye var? Ya da \u00fcst kat var i\u00e7inde, neden kom\u015fu denen garip varl\u0131klar ya\u015famaya \u00e7aba g\u00f6steriyor. \u0130nsan \u00e7ocu\u011fu olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fckretmeli mi? Hayat boyu bitmeyecek korkun\u00e7\u00a0bir sorumluluk. S\u00fcrekli \u00e7ocu\u011fun durumunu, hayat\u0131n\u0131, gelece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn, bu durum\u00a0sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131\u00a0insan\u0131\u00a0bile anksiyete hastas\u0131\u00a0yapar. Her hareketi yaparken iki kere d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00a0benim bildi\u011fim. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden bir [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":95517,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-96106","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-safak-genc"],"views":242,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96106","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=96106"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96106\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95517"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=96106"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=96106"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=96106"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}