Kad\u0131n haklar\u0131 konusunda \u0130slam\u00b4\u0131n ortaya koydu\u011fu prensipler hi\u00e7bir sistemin ula\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131 kadar y\u00fcce, a\u00e7\u0131k ve nettir.
\n\u0130slam anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re; Aile cemiyetin, kad\u0131n da ailenin temelidir.
\nBu sebeple \u0130slamiyet\u00b4te kad\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem verilmi\u015f, ona \u015fahsiyet kazand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u00b4ten \u00f6nceki cemiyetlerde kad\u0131n daima horlanm\u0131\u015f, kad\u0131na a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k bir mahluk gibi bak\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.
\n\u0130lk defa \u0130slamiyet kad\u0131na \u201c\u0130NSAN\u201d olarak de\u011fer vermi\u015f, ona \u201cm\u00fclkiyet\u201d,\u201cmiras\u201d, \u201ce\u015fitlik\u201d, \u201c\u00f6\u011frenme\u201d hakk\u0131 tan\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u00b4in getirdi\u011fi tabii haklardan faydalanmada kad\u0131n erkek ay\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 yap\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\nDini a\u00e7\u0131dan m\u00fckellefiyet ve sorumluluk; d\u00fcnyevi a\u00e7\u0131dan su\u00e7 i\u015fleme, su\u00e7 ve sald\u0131r\u0131lara kar\u015f\u0131 korunmada kad\u0131n-erkek aras\u0131nda tam bir e\u015fitlik getirilmi\u015ftir.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u00b4te kad\u0131n art\u0131k utan\u0131lacak bir yarat\u0131k de\u011fil, \u201ce\u015fref-i mahluk\u00e2t = yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar\u0131n en \u015fereflisi\u201d olmaya namzet bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r.
\nNitekim y\u00fcce \u0130slam dinine ilk inanan da, Allah yolunda can\u0131n\u0131 feda eden ilk M\u00fcsl\u00fcman \u015fehit de kad\u0131nd\u0131r.
\n\u0130slam\u00b4\u0131n ilk d\u00f6nemlerinde M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmayanlar y\u0131llar y\u0131l\u0131 devam eden anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 gere\u011fince yeni do\u011fan k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 diri-diri kumlara g\u00f6mmeye devam ediyor, anne babalar bundan hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc duymuyorlard\u0131.
\nCen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu istemeyenleri \u015f\u00f6yle uyarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:
\n\u201cOnlardan birine bir k\u0131z\u0131 do\u011fdu\u011fu m\u00fcjdelendi\u011finde \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr ve y\u00fcz\u00fc simsiyah kesilir. Bak h\u00fckmedegeldikleri bu \u015fey ne k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr:\u201d (Nahl suresi ayet: 58, 59).
\nPeygamberimiz (SAV) in : \u201cKim iki k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funu erginli\u011fe eri\u015finceye kadar besleyip b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrse, k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde ikimiz onunla beraber olaca\u011f\u0131z.\u201d m\u00fcjdesi \u0130sl\u00e2miyet\u00b4in kad\u0131nlara verdi\u011fi de\u011feri g\u00f6stermektedir.
\nKuran-\u0131 Kerim\u00b4de iki b\u00fcy\u00fck sureye \u201cMeryem\u201d ve \u201cNisa\u201d ad\u0131 verilmesi bunun ispat\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u00b4e g\u00f6re kad\u0131n ANNE\u00b4dir. Cennet onun ayaklar\u0131 alt\u0131nda, onun r\u0131zas\u0131ndad\u0131r.
\n\u201cAnne insanlar i\u00e7erisinde ihsan ve ikrama en lay\u0131k oland\u0131r.\u201d
\n\u0130slamiyet\u00b4te kad\u0131n E\u015e\u00b4tir. Zorluklara g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs geren, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 gideren, karanl\u0131klar\u0131 a\u011fartan g\u00fcne\u015ftir.
\nKad\u0131n, yuvan\u0131n temel dire\u011fidir.
\nCen\u00e2b-u Allah : \u201cM\u00fc\u00b4min erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar(aile i\u00e7erisinde) birbirlerinin velileridirler.\u201dbuyuruyor. (Tevbe suresi. Ayet: 7I)
\nBa\u015fka bir Ayet-i Kerimede : \u201cErkeklerin kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da erkekler \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201d buyruluyor.(Bakara suresi. Ayet:228).
\nBu haklar kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi, sayg\u0131 ve birbirlerinin haklar\u0131na riayettir.
\nPeygamberimiz : \u201cKocas\u0131 kendisinden raz\u0131 oldu\u011fu halde \u00f6len her kad\u0131n cennettedir.\u201d buyuruyor.
\nBa\u015fka bir Hadis-i \u015eerifte de:\u201cS\u0131r\u00e7alar kadar ince ve nazik olan kad\u0131nlara ihtimam ve dikkat g\u00f6steriniz!\u201dbuyruluyor.
\nPeygamberimiz, Veda hutbesinde b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara \u015fu vasiyeti b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:
\n\u201cEy insanlar! Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zetmenizi ve bu hususta Allah\u00b4tan korkman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederim.
\nSiz kad\u0131nlar\u0131 Allah\u00b4\u0131n emaneti olarak ald\u0131n\u0131z. Onlar\u0131n namuslar\u0131n\u0131 ve iffetlerini Allah ad\u0131na s\u00f6z vererek helal edindiniz.
\nSizin kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131n\u0131z, onlar\u0131n da sizin \u00fczerinizde haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201d
\n\u0130\u015fte bu anlay\u0131\u015f: Kad\u0131n\u0131 istenildi\u011fi gibi tasarruf edilmekten, lanetlenmekten ve sorunuzda bahsetti\u011finiz gibi reklam arac\u0131 olarak kullan\u0131lmaktan kurtarm\u0131\u015f ANNE olmu\u015f kutsalla\u015fm\u0131\u015f, \u201cE\u015e\u201d olmu\u015f, e\u015fitlik ve de\u011fer kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u00b4in \u201ckad\u0131n haklar\u0131\u201d konusunda getirdi\u011fi ger\u00e7ek de\u011fer be\u015feri sistemlerin hala ula\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131 bir y\u00fcce seviyedir.
\nAile i\u00e7inde kad\u0131n: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 yeti\u015ftiren anne, ailenin iffetini koruyan e\u015f\u00b4tir.
\nBug\u00fcn erkeklerimize oldu\u011fu kadar kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za d\u00fc\u015fen pek \u00e7ok g\u00f6revler vard\u0131r.
\nM\u00fcsl\u00fcman T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131 bu g\u00f6revlerin ne oldu\u011funu iyi bilmeli ve sorunuzda bahsetti\u011finiz kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n reklam arac\u0131 olmaktan kurtar\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z: Anadolu\u00b4da ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 k\u00f6y\u00fcn erkekleri sava\u015fa gittikleri zaman silahlar\u0131n\u0131 ku\u015fan\u0131p k\u00f6ylerini koruyan kad\u0131nlar toplulu\u011fu, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n ilk kad\u0131n \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc olan (Bac\u0131yan-\u0131 R\u00fbm = Anadolu bac\u0131lar\u0131 ) \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc kurarak Ahili\u011fin kurucusu e\u015fi Ahi Evran\u00b4la omuz omuza ekonomik ve sosyal hayatta \u00fclkesi i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, Anadolu\u00b4nun T\u00fcrkle\u015fmesi ve \u0130slamla\u015fmas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck rol oynayan Fatma Bac\u0131\u00b4lar\u0131n m\u00fccadelesinden \u00f6rnek almal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z; Kurtulu\u015f Sava\u015f\u0131ndaki Halide onba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n,\u00c7anakkale cephesindeki Nezahat onba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n, Cepheye mermi ta\u015f\u0131yan \u015eerife bac\u0131n\u0131n, Balkan sava\u015f\u0131ndaki Kara Fatma\u00b4n\u0131n, kurtulu\u015f sava\u015f\u0131nda erkek k\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na girerek \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmalara kat\u0131lan Halime \u00c7avu\u015flar\u0131n torunlar\u0131 olarak T\u00fcrkl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ve \u0130slaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n kendilerine sundu\u011fu de\u011ferlerini bilmeli, onurlar\u0131n\u0131 korumal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z;93 harbi olarak an\u0131lan 1877 \u2013 1878 Osmanl\u0131-Rus sava\u015f\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda Erzurum\u00b4daki Aziziye Tabyas\u0131n\u0131n savunmas\u0131 i\u00e7in e\u015fi askerde iken kollar\u0131nda \u015fehit verdi\u011fi a\u011fabeyini ve 3 ayl\u0131k bebe\u011fini emzirip b\u0131rakarak Aziziye tabyas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman eline ge\u00e7memesi i\u00e7in ko\u015fan 20 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki gelin Nene Hatun\u00b4lar\u0131n kahramanl\u0131klar\u0131ndan \u00f6rnek almal\u0131, \u00fclkemizi b\u00f6lmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ter\u00f6r \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc yanda\u015flar\u0131 olan milletvekili-sokak eylemcisi-canl\u0131 bomba-vatan haini kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ibretle izlemeli ve bundan ders \u00e7\u0131karmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u0130slam\u00b4\u0131n kad\u0131n\u00b4a bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 budur.
\n\u015eimdi sizleri Kur\u2019an-\u0131 Kerimle konu\u015fan kad\u0131n ile ba\u015f ba\u015fa b\u0131rak\u0131yorum:
\nTebe-i T\u00e2bi\u00een neslinden Abdullah ibni M\u00fcbarek hazretleri anlat\u0131yor:
\nHacca gidiyordum. Irak-Suriye topraklar\u0131ndan ge\u00e7erken yaln\u0131z bir kad\u0131na rastlad\u0131m. Sel\u00e2m verdim; sel\u00e2m\u0131m\u0131”S\u00f6z olarak Rah\u00eem bir rabden sel\u00e2m s\u00f6z\u00fcd\u00fcr onlar\u0131n duyaca\u011f\u0131” (Y\u00e2-S\u00een:58 ) \u00e2yetiyle ald\u0131.
\n“Buralarda ne yap\u0131yorsun?” diye sordum.
\n“Allah kimi yoldan \u00e7\u0131karm\u0131\u015fsa, ona yol bulduracak yoktur” (A’r\u00e2f: 186) \u00e2yetini okudu.
\nAnlad\u0131m ki, yolunu kaybetmi\u015f. Nereye gitti\u011fi soruma
\n“Bir gece kulunu Mescid-i Haram’dan al\u0131p Mescid-i Aks\u00e2’ya g\u00f6t\u00fcren Allah’\u0131 tesbih ederim” (\u0130sr\u00e2: 1) \u00e2yetiyle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verdi.
\nAnlad\u0131m ki, ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz hacc mevsiminde hacc\u0131n\u0131 tamamlam\u0131\u015f, Kud\u00fcs’e gidiyor.
\n“Ne zamandan beri b\u00f6yle yolunu kaybettin?” dedim.
\n“Tam \u00fc\u00e7 gece (yani \u00fc\u00e7 g\u00fcnd\u00fcr)” (Meryem: 10) dedi.
\nYiyecek verme teklifinde bulundum.
\n“Sonra orucunuzu g\u00fcn bat\u0131ncaya kadar tamamlay\u0131n” (Bakara:
\n187) \u00e2yetini okudu.
\n“\u0130yi de Ramazan’da de\u011filiz” dedim.
\n“Kim Allah i\u00e7in nafile bir hay\u0131r yaparsa, Allah her hayr\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 verendir, her \u015feyi hakk\u0131yla bilendir” (Bakara: 158 \u00e2yetiyle cevap verdi.
\n“Yolculukta oru\u00e7 a\u00e7\u0131labilir” dedim.
\n“Ama orucu tutarsan\u0131z, bu hakk\u0131n\u0131zda daha hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r” (Bakara: 184) \u00e2yetini okudu.
\nNiye benim gibi konu\u015fmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sordum.
\n“A\u011fz\u0131ndan tek bir s\u00f6z bile \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131n ki, yan\u0131nda onu g\u00f6zleyen ve o s\u00f6z\u00fc kaydetmeye haz\u0131r bir g\u00f6zc\u00fc bulunmam\u0131\u015f olsun” (k\u00e2f: 18 ) dedi.
\n“Kimlerdensin?” diye sordum.
\n“Bu konuda bilgin yok (ailemi s\u00f6ylesem de tan\u0131mazs\u0131n). Sonra g\u00f6z de, kalb de (g\u00f6rmeden, kesin bilgiye dayal\u0131 olmadan verdi\u011fin her h\u00fck\u00fcmden) sorumludur” (\u0130sr\u00e2: 36) \u00e2yetiyle cevap verdi.
\n“Hata ettim, hakk\u0131n\u0131 hel\u00e2l et!” dedim.
\n“Bug\u00fcn size k\u0131nama yok. Allah, sizi ba\u011f\u0131\u015flas\u0131n” (Yusuf: 92) dedi.
\nDeveme bindirip kafilesine ula\u015ft\u0131rma teklifinde bulundum.
\n“Hay\u0131r ad\u0131na ne i\u015flerseniz Allah onu bilir” (Bakara: 215) \u00e2yetiyle mukabele etti.
\nDevemi yan\u0131na getirdim. Binecekken, “M\u00fc’min erkeklere s\u00f6yle, bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 sak\u0131ns\u0131nlar” (N\u00fbr: 30) \u00e2yetini okudu.
\nG\u00f6zlerimi \u00e7evirdim; binecekken deve \u00fcrk\u00fcp ka\u00e7t\u0131, bu arada elbisesi az y\u0131rt\u0131ld\u0131.
\n“Ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131za musibet olarak ne gelirse, bu bizzat i\u015fleyip, onu hak etmeniz sebebiyledir” (\u015e\u00fbr\u00e2: 30) \u00e2yetini m\u0131r\u0131ldand\u0131.
\n“Sabret, deveyi ba\u011flayay\u0131m!” dedim.
\n“Bu hususta S\u00fcleyman’\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 ve daha isabetli davran\u0131r k\u0131ld\u0131k” (Enbiy\u00e2: 79) \u00e2yetini okuyarak, devemi y\u00f6nlendirme konusunda benim daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fumu kasdetti.
\nDeveye bindi ve “Bunu bize ba\u015f e\u011fdiren Allah’\u0131 tesbih ederim; yoksa bunu biz ba\u015faramazd\u0131k. Ve sonunda \u015f\u00fcphesiz Rabbimize d\u00f6nece\u011fiz!” (Zuhruf: 13-14) \u00e2yetlerini okudu.
\n“Haydi!”diye deveyi h\u0131zland\u0131rd\u0131m.
\n“Y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnde (ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda) vakur ol ve sesini y\u00fckseltme. Seslerin en \u00e7irkini, (ba\u011f\u0131ran) e\u015fe\u011fin sesidir!” (Lokman: 19) mukabelesinde bulundu.
\nY\u00fcr\u00fcrken \u015fiir okumaya ba\u015flad\u0131m.
\n“Kur’an’dan kolay\u0131n\u0131za geleni okuyun!” (M\u00fczzemmil: 20) dedi.
\n“\u015eiir okumak haram de\u011fil ki!” dedim.
\n“Bu hususu ancak ger\u00e7ek idrak ve basiret sahipleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcp anlar!” (Bakara: 269) cevab\u0131n\u0131 verdi.
\nBir s\u00fcre gittik; sonra evli olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 sordum.
\n“Ey iman edenler! Cevab\u0131 verildi\u011finde sizi \u00fczecek meselelerden sormay\u0131n!” (M\u00e2ide: 101) \u00e2yetini okudu.
\nDerken kafilesine ula\u015ft\u0131k ve “Kafile i\u00e7inde kimsen var m\u0131?” dedim.
\n“Mal ve evl\u00e2t d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131n\u0131n s\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr!” (Kehf: 46) dedi.
\nAnlad\u0131m ki, evl\u00e2d\u0131 var. \u0130simlerini sordum. “Allah \u0130brahim’i dost edindi; Allah Musa ile konu\u015ftu; Ey
\nYahya, Kitab’a kuvvetle tutun!” (Nis\u00e2: 125, 164; Meryem: 12) \u00e2yetlerini okudu.
\n“Ey \u0130brahim, ey Musa, ey \u0130sa!” diye kafileye seslendim. Nur y\u00fczl\u00fc \u00fc\u00e7 gen\u00e7 “Buyur!” diye \u00e7\u0131kageldi.
\nOnlara para verip, “Bununla i\u00e7inizden birini \u015fehre yollay\u0131n! Yemeklerin hel\u00e2l ve temiz olan\u0131na baks\u0131n ve size bir yiyecek getirsin. Dikkatli davrans\u0131n!” (Kehf: 19) dedi.
\nYiyecek gelince bana, “Ge\u00e7mi\u015f g\u00fcnlerinizde yapt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u015fimdi afiyetle yiyip i\u00e7in!” (H\u00e2qqa: 24) dedi.
\n\u00c7ocuklara, “Annenizin bu durumunu bana s\u00f6ylemezseniz bu yemekten yemem!” dedim.
\n“Annemiz” dediler, “A\u011fz\u0131ndan Cenab-\u0131 Allah’\u0131n gazab\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ekecek yanl\u0131\u015f bir s\u00f6z \u00e7\u0131kar korkusuyla 40 y\u0131ld\u0131r b\u00f6yle sadece Kur’an’la konu\u015fur.”
\n\u0130bn M\u00fcbarek, bu hadiseyi Kur’an’da her \u015feyin bulundu\u011funa delil olarak anlatm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r..
\n\u0130\u015fte y\u00fcce \u0130slam dininin kad\u0131nlara verdi\u011fi de\u011fer ve Kuranla konu\u015fan kad\u0131n\u2026
\nHo\u015f\u00e7a kal\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n
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