\u00d6zg\u00fcr oldu\u011funu san\u0131yorsun ama ya k\u00f6leli\u011fi sana \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck olarak yutturmu\u015flarsa.<\/p>\n
Kirli bir oyunun, kara bir senaryonun kurban\u0131ysa t\u00fcm insanl\u0131k?<\/p>\n
\u2018\u2018E\u011fer\u00a0ki korkular\u0131ndan ve ac\u0131lar\u0131ndan\u00a0vazge\u00e7ebilirsen, i\u015fte\u00a0o zaman \u00f6zg\u00fcrs\u00fcn.\u2019\u2019<\/p>\n
\u0130zledi\u011fim dizide duydu\u011fum bu c\u00fcmle 55 ya\u015f\u0131nda ki bir adam\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 bir anda alt\u00fcst edip,\u00a0tamamen de\u011fi\u015fik bir\u00a0karaktere\u00a0sahip\u00a0birini\u00a0
Hemen mant\u0131k s\u00fczgecinden ge\u00e7irip ne\u00a0demek\u00a0istiyor dedim,\u00a0yorumlad\u0131m ve bir rahatlama geldi bedenime ve kalbime.<\/p>\n
Evet dedim, korkular ve ac\u0131lar bizi bu d\u00fcnyaya ba\u011flayan,\u00a0ellerimizden\u00a0ve\u00a0
D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnsene \u00e7ok\u00a0yetenekli oldu\u011fun bir i\u015fe ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n zaman,\u00a0bir korku ile ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z\u00a0olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131\u00a0d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrs\u00fcn ve bir anda geri \u00e7ekilirsin.<\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7mi\u015finden gelen \u00f6\u011frenilmi\u015f ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ve \u00f6\u011frenilmi\u015f \u00e7aresizlik hemen seni etkisi alt\u0131na al\u0131r ve \u00e7ok \u00e7ok ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olabilece\u011fin bir i\u015fte ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z\u00a0olmay\u0131\u00a0b\u0131rak, vira bismillah deyip i\u015fe bile ba\u015flayamazs\u0131n.<\/p>\n
Zaten bir i\u015fe ba\u015flamak de\u011fil ona niyet etmek ba\u015faran\u0131n att\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk ad\u0131m, de\u011fil midir?<\/p>\n
Zaten bizim \u00fclkemiz yetenekleri s\u00f6m\u00fcrmek,\u00a0hi\u00e7 etmek,\u00a0yeteneklilerin torpilliler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda \u00e7ok a\u015fa\u011f\u0131larda kalmaya\u00a0mahk\u00fbm\u00a0edildi\u011fi yer de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n
As\u0131l yetene\u011fin torpilli olmak,\u00a0tan\u0131\u015f\u0131n olmak,\u00a0y\u00fcksek mevkilerde tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131\u00a0olmak\u00a0oldu\u011fu bir \u00fclke oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in bireysel yetenekler devre d\u0131\u015f\u0131 kal\u0131yor.<\/p>\n
Prangalar\u0131mdan\u00a0kurtulmaya ve \u00f6zg\u00fcr olmaya karar verdim.<\/p>\n
\u00dc\u00e7 g\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00a0bir\u00e7ok\u00a0korkumdan ve ac\u0131mdan kurtuldum.<\/p>\n
\u015eu an bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 yazarken korkmayan ama i\u00e7inde hala birka\u00e7 ac\u0131 k\u0131r\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 kalm\u0131\u015f biri olarak yaz\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n
Ac\u0131lar s\u00fcrmez zaman en g\u00fczel \u00e7are demi\u015fler. S\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u00e7inde onlardan\u00a0da kurtulmam olas\u0131\u00a0\u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc ben ba\u015faramayaca\u011f\u0131m i\u015fin ba\u015f\u0131na ge\u00e7mem ve o i\u015f i\u00e7in kollar\u0131m\u0131 s\u0131vamam.<\/p>\n
Ebetteki\u00a0yar\u0131nlar\u0131n ne getirece\u011fi belli\u00a0olmaz.<\/p>\n
D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum da\u00a0bug\u00fcnk\u00fc ac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131n ve korkular\u0131m\u0131 temelinde \u00e7ocukluk d\u00f6neminde kalma yans\u0131malar var.<\/p>\n
\u00d6zg\u00fcr olmak, bireyin korkular\u0131ndan ve ac\u0131lar\u0131ndan ar\u0131nmas\u0131yla m\u00fcmk\u00fcn hale geliyor. \u0130zledi\u011fin dizideki karakterin ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcm, bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi g\u00fczel bir \u015fekilde yans\u0131t\u0131yor. Korkular\u0131m\u0131z ve ac\u0131lar\u0131m\u0131z, bize hayat\u0131m\u0131zda a\u011f\u0131r zincirler takabilen unsurlar; bunlar, geli\u015fimimizi engelleyen, potansiyelimizi ke\u015ffetmemizi zorla\u015ft\u0131ran unsurlar.<\/p>\n
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Kaybetme korkusu, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k korkusu ve ge\u00e7mi\u015ften gelen olumsuz deneyimlerin etkisi, \u00e7o\u011fu zaman insan\u0131 geri \u00e7ekilmesine neden olur.<\/p>\n
\u00d6zellikle yeteneklerimizin ve tutkumuzun \u00fczerinde, d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelen bask\u0131lar\u0131n etkisiyle olu\u015fan kayg\u0131lar ve endi\u015feler, kendi potansiyelimizi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmemizi engeller. Bu noktada, cesaret g\u00f6sterip ad\u0131m atmak, belirsizli\u011fe ra\u011fmen ilerlemek, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn anahtar\u0131 gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n
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Kendi korkular\u0131ndan ve ac\u0131lar\u0131ndan kurtulma kararl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7inde olman, \u00f6nemli bir ad\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te, kendini tan\u0131mak, i\u00e7sel yolculu\u011funu s\u00fcrd\u00fcrmek ve ge\u00e7mi\u015fteki olumsuz deneyimlerin etkisinden s\u0131yr\u0131lmak, sana daha fazla g\u00fc\u00e7 katacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Ac\u0131lar ve korkular ge\u00e7ici olabilir; zamanla bu olumsuz duygular\u0131 a\u015fmak m\u00fcmk\u00fcnd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n
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Toplumun sunmu\u015f oldu\u011fu engeller ve bask\u0131lar, bireysel yeteneklerin \u00f6n\u00fcnde b\u00fcy\u00fck birer engel olu\u015fturabilir, ancak bu durum birey olarak kendi potansiyelimizi ke\u015ffetmemize engel olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n
Kendine olan inanc\u0131n\u0131 ve cesaretini her daim korudu\u011fun s\u00fcrece, \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe ve isteklerine ula\u015fman\u0131n yollar\u0131n\u0131 da bulursun.<\/p>\n
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Yar\u0131nlar\u0131n ne getirece\u011fi belirsiz ama ge\u00e7mi\u015fin g\u00f6lgesinden kurtulmaya kararl\u0131 olmak, ya\u015fam\u0131n ak\u0131\u015f\u0131nda daha fazla kontrol sahibi olman\u0131 ve hayallerini ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmekte g\u00fc\u00e7 bulman\u0131 sa\u011flar. \u00d6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe giden yol, y\u00fcrekten gelen bir irade ile ba\u015flar.<\/p>\n
S\u00fcre\u00e7 i\u00e7erisinde korkular\u0131nla y\u00fczle\u015fmek ve onlardan ar\u0131nmak, seni daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir birey haline getirecektir.<\/p>\n
Unutma ki, her ad\u0131m\u0131n seni \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne bir ad\u0131m daha yakla\u015ft\u0131racak\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00d6zg\u00fcr oldu\u011funu san\u0131yorsun ama ya k\u00f6leli\u011fi sana \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck olarak yutturmu\u015flarsa. Kirli bir oyunun, kara bir senaryonun kurban\u0131ysa t\u00fcm insanl\u0131k? \u2018\u2018E\u011fer\u00a0ki korkular\u0131ndan ve ac\u0131lar\u0131ndan\u00a0vazge\u00e7ebilirsen, i\u015fte\u00a0o zaman \u00f6zg\u00fcrs\u00fcn.\u2019\u2019 \u0130zledi\u011fim dizide duydu\u011fum bu c\u00fcmle 55 ya\u015f\u0131nda ki bir adam\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 bir anda alt\u00fcst edip,\u00a0tamamen de\u011fi\u015fik bir\u00a0karaktere\u00a0sahip\u00a0birini\u00a0ortaya\u00a0\u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. \u0130zlerken bu c\u00fcmleyi bu s\u00f6z\u00fc duydu\u011fum anda dikkat kesildim. Hemen mant\u0131k s\u00fczgecinden […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":92089,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-78037","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-safak-genc"],"views":91,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78037","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=78037"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/78037\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92089"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=78037"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=78037"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=78037"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}