Mail adresime gelen sorular\u0131n bir k\u0131sm\u0131 kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk haklar\u0131yla ilgili.
\nAdana\u2019dan Bayan Asiye Y\u0131lmaz soruyor:
\nSORU: Son y\u0131llarda erkeklerle kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda meydana gelen e\u015fitsizlikleri g\u00f6r\u00fcnce kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan utan\u0131yorum.
\nErkekler kad\u0131nlar\u0131 reklam arac\u0131 olarak kullan\u0131yor.
\nBiz kad\u0131nlar galiba de\u011ferimizi ve haklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilemiyoruz.
\nTarihte erke\u011finin yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda olan pek \u00e7ok T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6yk\u00fclerini okuyoruz.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u2019in kad\u0131n haklar\u0131 konusundaki g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc nedir?
\nEski medeniyetleri kuran \u00fclkelerden Yunanistan, Roma, \u00c7in ve Hindistan\u2019daki kad\u0131n anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 ile \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019\u0131n kad\u0131n anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 aras\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f fark\u0131 var m\u0131d\u0131r?
\n\u0130lahi dinlerden Yahudilik ve Hristiyan\u2019l\u0131k inan\u0131\u015f\u0131 ile \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 mukayese eder misiniz?
\n\u0130slam\u2019da kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemi nas\u0131ld\u0131r?
\nCEVAP: Kad\u0131n haklar\u0131 konusunda \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n ortaya koydu\u011fu prensipler hi\u00e7bir sistemin ula\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131 kadar y\u00fcce, a\u00e7\u0131k ve nettir.
\n\u0130slam anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re; Aile cemiyetin, kad\u0131n da ailenin temelidir.
\nBu sebeple \u0130slamiyet\u2019te kad\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem verilmi\u015f, ona \u015fahsiyet kazand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u2019ten \u00f6nceki cemiyetlerde kad\u0131n daima horlanm\u0131\u015f, kad\u0131na a\u015fa\u011f\u0131l\u0131k bir mahluk gibi bak\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.
\nTarihi geli\u015fim i\u00e7inde eski devletlerin kad\u0131na bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 inceledi\u011fimiz zaman \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n getirdi\u011fi prensiplerin de\u011feri daha iyi anla\u015f\u0131lacakt\u0131r.
\nEski Yunan\u2019da Kad\u0131n, \u015feytan\u0131n amelinden meydana gelmi\u015f adi bir varl\u0131k olarak de\u011ferlendirilmi\u015fti.
\nEski \u00c7in\u2019de kad\u0131n insan bile say\u0131lmam\u0131\u015f, kad\u0131nlara isim bile verilmemi\u015f, 1, 2, 3 diye rakamlarla adland\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.
\nEski Roma\u2019da kad\u0131n, haysiyeti ve \u015fahsiyeti olmayan, necis, pis bir yarat\u0131k olarak nitelendirilmi\u015fti.
\nEski Hind anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re kad\u0131n o kadar de\u011fersiz kabul edilmi\u015fti ki; Onlar\u0131n anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re veba, \u00f6l\u00fcm, y\u0131lan, zehir, ate\u015f ve cehennem kad\u0131ndan daha hay\u0131rl\u0131 say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.
\nOn birinci y\u00fczy\u0131la kadar \u201c\u0130ngiltere\u201dde kocalar e\u015flerini satabiliyorlard\u0131. \u0130ngilizlere g\u00f6re kad\u0131n murdar bir mahluk say\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan \u0130ncil\u2019e el s\u00fcrmesi yasakt\u0131. Kad\u0131nlar vatanda\u015f olarak bile kabul edilmezler, onlara m\u00fclkiyet hakk\u0131 tan\u0131nmazd\u0131.
\nEski Fransa\u2019da kad\u0131n\u0131n insandan say\u0131l\u0131p say\u0131lamayaca\u011f\u0131 uzun y\u00fczy\u0131llar tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f, sonunda kad\u0131n\u0131n da insan oldu\u011funa, ancak onun erke\u011fe hizmet i\u00e7in yarat\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na karar verilmi\u015fti. Kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar ve delilerle ayn\u0131 kefeye konulmas\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131 Fransa\u2019da son y\u00fczy\u0131llara kadar devam etmi\u015ftir.
\nYahudi Hukuku\u2019nda kad\u0131n insan\u0131 aldat\u0131p k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe sevk etti\u011finden mel\u2019un bir varl\u0131k olarak kabul edilmi\u015fti.
\nH\u0131ristiyan Hukuku\u2019nda kad\u0131n \u015feytan\u0131n kap\u0131s\u0131, \u0130blis\u2019in silah\u0131, fitnenin en b\u00fcy\u00fck sebebi olarak kabul edilmi\u015fti.
\n\u0130lk defa \u0130slamiyet kad\u0131na \u201c\u0130NSAN\u201d olarak de\u011fer vermi\u015f, ona \u201cm\u00fclkiyet\u201d,\u201cmiras\u201d, \u201ce\u015fitlik\u201d, \u201c\u00f6\u011frenme\u201d hakk\u0131 tan\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u2019in getirdi\u011fi tabii haklardan faydalanmada kad\u0131n erkek ay\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 yap\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\nDini a\u00e7\u0131dan m\u00fckellefiyet ve sorumluluk; d\u00fcnyevi a\u00e7\u0131dan su\u00e7 i\u015fleme, su\u00e7 ve sald\u0131r\u0131lara kar\u015f\u0131 korunmada kad\u0131n-erkek aras\u0131nda tam bir e\u015fitlik getirilmi\u015ftir.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u2019te kad\u0131n art\u0131k utan\u0131lacak bir yarat\u0131k de\u011fil, \u201ce\u015fref-i mahluk\u00e2t = yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar\u0131n en \u015fereflisi\u201d olmaya namzet bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r.
\nNitekim y\u00fcce \u0130slam dinine ilk inanan da, Allah yolunda can\u0131n\u0131 feda eden ilk M\u00fcsl\u00fcman \u015fehit de kad\u0131nd\u0131r.
\n\u0130slam\u2019\u0131n ilk d\u00f6nemlerinde M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmayanlar y\u0131llar y\u0131l\u0131 devam eden anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 gere\u011fince yeni do\u011fan k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 diri-diri kumlara g\u00f6mmeye devam ediyor, anne babalar bundan hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc duymuyorlard\u0131.
\nCen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu istemeyenleri \u015f\u00f6yle uyarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:
\n\u201cOnlardan birine bir k\u0131z\u0131 do\u011fdu\u011fu m\u00fcjdelendi\u011finde \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr ve y\u00fcz\u00fc simsiyah kesilir. Bak h\u00fckmedegeldikleri bu \u015fey ne k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr:\u201d (Nahl suresi ayet: 58, 59).
\nPeygamberimiz (SAV) in : \u201cKim iki k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funu erginli\u011fe eri\u015finceye kadar besleyip b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrse, k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde ikimiz onunla beraber olaca\u011f\u0131z.\u201d m\u00fcjdesi \u0130sl\u00e2miyet\u2019in kad\u0131nlara verdi\u011fi de\u011feri g\u00f6stermektedir.
\nKuran-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de iki b\u00fcy\u00fck sureye \u201cMeryem\u201d ve \u201cNisa\u201d ad\u0131 verilmesi bunun ispat\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u2019e g\u00f6re kad\u0131n ANNE\u2019dir. Cennet onun ayaklar\u0131 alt\u0131nda, onun r\u0131zas\u0131ndad\u0131r.
\n\u201cAnne insanlar i\u00e7erisinde ihsan ve ikrama en lay\u0131k oland\u0131r.\u201d
\n\u0130slamiyet\u2019te kad\u0131n E\u015e\u2019tir. Zorluklara g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs geren, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 gideren, karanl\u0131klar\u0131 a\u011fartan g\u00fcne\u015ftir.
\nKad\u0131n, yuvan\u0131n temel dire\u011fidir.
\nCen\u00e2b-u Allah : \u201cM\u00fc\u2019min erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar(aile i\u00e7erisinde) birbirlerinin velileridirler.\u201dbuyuruyor. (Tevbe suresi. Ayet: 7I)
\nBa\u015fka bir Ayet-i Kerimede : \u201cErkeklerin kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da erkekler \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201dbuyruluyor.(Bakara suresi. Ayet:228).
\nBu haklar kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi, sayg\u0131 ve birbirlerinin haklar\u0131na riayettir.
\nPeygamberimiz : \u201cKocas\u0131 kendisinden raz\u0131 oldu\u011fu halde \u00f6len her kad\u0131n cennettedir.\u201d buyuruyor.
\nBa\u015fka bir Hadis-i \u015eerifte de:\u201cS\u0131r\u00e7alar kadar ince ve nazik olan kad\u0131nlara ihtimam ve dikkat g\u00f6steriniz!\u201dbuyruluyor.
\nPeygamberimiz, Veda hutbesinde b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara \u015fu vasiyeti b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:
\n\u201cEy insanlar! Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zetmenizi ve bu hususta Allah\u2019tan korkman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederim.
\nSiz kad\u0131nlar\u0131 Allah\u2019\u0131n emaneti olarak ald\u0131n\u0131z. Onlar\u0131n namuslar\u0131n\u0131 ve iffetlerini Allah ad\u0131na s\u00f6z vererek helal edindiniz.
\nSizin kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131n\u0131z, onlar\u0131n da sizin \u00fczerinizde haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201d
\n\u0130\u015fte bu anlay\u0131\u015f: Kad\u0131n\u0131 istenildi\u011fi gibi tasarruf edilmekten, lanetlenmekten ve sorunuzda bahsetti\u011finiz gibi reklam arac\u0131 olarak kullan\u0131lmaktan kurtarm\u0131\u015f ANNE olmu\u015f kutsalla\u015fm\u0131\u015f, \u201cE\u015e\u201d olmu\u015f, e\u015fitlik ve de\u011fer kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u2019in \u201ckad\u0131n haklar\u0131\u201d konusunda getirdi\u011fi ger\u00e7ek de\u011fer be\u015feri sistemlerin hala ula\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131 bir y\u00fcce seviyedir.
\nAile i\u00e7inde kad\u0131n: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 yeti\u015ftiren anne, ailenin iffetini koruyan e\u015f\u2019tir.
\nAilenin reisi erkektir. Ailenin ge\u00e7imini temin etmek erke\u011fin vazifesidir.
\nErkek kad\u0131n\u0131n \u015fahsi m\u00fclkiyeti \u00fczerinde tasarruf hakk\u0131na sahiptir.
\nAilenin ge\u00e7imi erkek \u00fczerinde oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in, kad\u0131n aile i\u00e7inde hi\u00e7 bir mali m\u00fckellefiyet y\u00fcklenmek zorunda de\u011fildir.
\nKad\u0131n, erke\u011fin tuttu\u011fu evde oturmak zorundad\u0131r. Ba\u015fka bir deyi\u015fle erkek e\u015finin rahat etmesi i\u00e7in ev sahibi olmak veya onun rahat ya\u015fayabilece\u011fi bir ev tutmak zorundad\u0131r.
\nKocas\u0131n\u0131n izni olmadan bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015famaz. Kocas\u0131 e\u015fini zorla bir i\u015fte \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaya zorlayamaz.
\n\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n tahsilinde ve mesle\u011fe y\u00f6nlendirilmesinde baban\u0131n reyi tercih edilir.
\n\u0130slamiyet\u2019te kad\u0131n\u0131n kocas\u0131, kocan\u0131n da kar\u0131s\u0131 \u00fczerindeki haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.
\nKad\u0131n\u0131n kocas\u0131 \u00fczerindeki haklar\u0131: Helal r\u0131z\u0131kla kad\u0131n\u0131n maddi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamak, ona \u015fefkat g\u00f6stermek, onu himaye etmek, l\u00fczumsuz yere d\u00f6vmemek, eziyet etmemek, dini vazifelerini \u00f6\u011fretmek, ona kar\u015f\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc zan beslememek, her \u015feyi a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a konu\u015fmak, kar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 if\u015fa etmemek, onun iffetini, namusunu, \u015fahsiyetini korumak \u015feklinde \u00f6zetlenebilir.
\nKocan\u0131n kar\u0131s\u0131 \u00fczerindeki haklan ise; Kocas\u0131n\u0131n me\u015fru isteklerini kar\u015f\u0131lamak, g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn yetti\u011fi kadar ev hizmetlerini yapmak, kocas\u0131n\u0131n mal\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131, aile \u015ferefini korumak, kocas\u0131n\u0131n en yak\u0131n yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 olarak, aile m\u00fcessesesinin devam\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmakt\u0131r.
\nBug\u00fcn erkeklerimize oldu\u011fu kadar kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za d\u00fc\u015fen pek \u00e7ok g\u00f6revler vard\u0131r.
\nM\u00fcsl\u00fcman T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131 bu g\u00f6revlerin ne oldu\u011funu iyi bilmeli ve sorunuzda bahsetti\u011finiz kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n reklam arac\u0131 olmaktan kurtar\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z: Anadolu\u2019da ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 k\u00f6y\u00fcn erkekleri sava\u015fa gittikleri zaman silahlar\u0131n\u0131 ku\u015fan\u0131p k\u00f6ylerini koruyan kad\u0131nlar toplulu\u011fu, d\u00fcnyan\u0131n ilk kad\u0131n \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc olan (Bac\u0131yan-\u0131 R\u00fbm = Anadolu bac\u0131lar\u0131 ) \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc kurarak Ahili\u011fin kurucusu e\u015fi Ahi Evran\u2019la omuz omuza ekonomik ve sosyal hayatta \u00fclkesi i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, Anadolu\u2019nun T\u00fcrkle\u015fmesi ve \u0130slamla\u015fmas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck rol oynayan Fatma Bac\u0131\u2019lar\u0131n m\u00fccadelesinden \u00f6rnek almal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z; Kurtulu\u015f Sava\u015f\u0131ndaki Halide onba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n, \u00c7anakkale cephesindeki Nezahat onba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n, Cepheye mermi ta\u015f\u0131yan \u015eerife bac\u0131n\u0131n, Balkan sava\u015f\u0131ndaki Kara Fatma\u2019n\u0131n, kurtulu\u015f sava\u015f\u0131nda erkek k\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na girerek \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmalara kat\u0131lan Halime \u00c7avu\u015flar\u0131n torunlar\u0131 olarak T\u00fcrkl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ve \u0130slaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n kendilerine sundu\u011fu de\u011ferlerini bilmeli, onurlar\u0131n\u0131 korumal\u0131d\u0131r.
\nKad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z; 93 harbi olarak an\u0131lan 1877 \u2013 1878 Osmanl\u0131-Rus sava\u015f\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda Erzurum\u2019daki Aziziye Tabyas\u0131n\u0131n savunmas\u0131 i\u00e7in e\u015fi askerde iken kollar\u0131nda \u015fehit verdi\u011fi a\u011fabeyini ve 3 ayl\u0131k bebe\u011fini emzirip b\u0131rakarak Aziziye tabyas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman eline ge\u00e7memesi i\u00e7in ko\u015fan 20 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki gelin Nene Hatun\u2019lar\u0131n kahramanl\u0131klar\u0131ndan \u00f6rnek almal\u0131, \u00fclkemizi b\u00f6lmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ter\u00f6r \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc yanda\u015flar\u0131 olan milletvekili-sokak eylemcisi-canl\u0131 bomba-vatan haini kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ibretle izlemeli ve bundan ders \u00e7\u0131karmal\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u0130slam\u2019\u0131n kad\u0131n\u2019a bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 budur.
\nHo\u015f\u00e7a kal\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Mail adresime gelen sorular\u0131n bir k\u0131sm\u0131 kad\u0131n ve \u00e7ocuk haklar\u0131yla ilgili. Adana\u2019dan Bayan Asiye Y\u0131lmaz soruyor: SORU: Son y\u0131llarda erkeklerle kad\u0131nlar aras\u0131nda meydana gelen e\u015fitsizlikleri g\u00f6r\u00fcnce kad\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan utan\u0131yorum. Erkekler kad\u0131nlar\u0131 reklam arac\u0131 olarak kullan\u0131yor. Biz kad\u0131nlar galiba de\u011ferimizi ve haklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilemiyoruz. Tarihte erke\u011finin yan\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda olan pek \u00e7ok T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6yk\u00fclerini okuyoruz. \u0130slamiyet\u2019in kad\u0131n haklar\u0131 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":76061,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-76060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gazi-mert"],"views":73,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=76060"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/76060\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/76061"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=76060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=76060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=76060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}