{"id":71214,"date":"2024-04-30T13:02:10","date_gmt":"2024-04-30T10:02:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=71214"},"modified":"2024-06-11T21:33:38","modified_gmt":"2024-06-11T18:33:38","slug":"sohbet-kosesi-kadina-siddete-ve-cocuk-istismarina-hayir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2024\/04\/30\/sohbet-kosesi-kadina-siddete-ve-cocuk-istismarina-hayir\/","title":{"rendered":"SOHBET K\u00d6\u015eES\u0130: KADINA \u015e\u0130DDETE VE \u00c7OCUK \u0130ST\u0130SMARINA HAYIR\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fcn ge\u00e7miyor ki gazete ve televizyonlarda \u015fiddete u\u011frayan kad\u0131nlar ile ilgil haberler yay\u0131mlanmas\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Yine g\u00fcn ge\u00e7miyor ki istismara u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuklardan s\u00f6z edilmesin\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bu konularda nas\u0131l bir toplum olduk anlamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet konusunda ilk akla gelen fiziksel \u015fiddettir; Dayak, yaralama ve cinayet gibi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u015eiddetin ba\u015fka t\u00fcrleri de vard\u0131r; Kad\u0131n\u0131n ev d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na izin vermemek, gelirine el koymak, ailesi ya da arkada\u015flar\u0131yla g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesine izin vermemek, hakaret etmek gibi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn, fiziksel, duygusal\/psikolojik, ekonomik, cinsel \u015fiddet veya \u015fiddet tehdidi y\u00fcz\u00fcnden her kesimden milyonlarca kad\u0131n bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda ya\u015f\u0131yor, toplumsal hayata daha az kat\u0131l\u0131yor, zorla evlendiriliyor, sakat kal\u0131yor veya \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcstelik \u015fiddet aile i\u00e7inde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fti\u011finde etkisi de daha y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 oluyor.<br \/>\n\u00c7ocuk istismar\u0131 ise; Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa bir yeti\u015fkin taraf\u0131ndan fiziksel ya da psikolojik olarak k\u00f6t\u00fc davran\u0131lmas\u0131d\u0131r.<br \/>\nAyr\u0131ca \u00e7ocuklara k\u00f6t\u00fc muamele, \u00e7ocuk istismar\u0131 ve ihmali ile \u00e7o\u011fu zaman ayn\u0131 anlama gelir.<br \/>\nD\u00fcnya Sa\u011fl\u0131k \u00d6rg\u00fct\u00fc \u00e7ocuk istismar\u0131n\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle tan\u0131mlar: &#8220;\u00c7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, fiziksel ve psikososyal geli\u015fimini olumsuz etkileyen, bir yeti\u015fkin, toplum ya da devlet taraf\u0131ndan bilerek ya da bilmeyerek uygulanan t\u00fcm davran\u0131\u015flar \u00e7ocu\u011fa k\u00f6t\u00fc muameledir.&#8221;<br \/>\nBu istismar ve ihmalin a\u00e7\u0131klanmas\u0131 konusunda bir\u00e7ok \u00fclke y\u00f6netimi kendi yasal tan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 yapm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r,<br \/>\n2 Eyl\u00fcl 1990 tarihinde y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011fe giren \u00c7ocuk Haklar\u0131 S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi&#8217;ne g\u00f6re; &#8220;Ulusal yasalarca daha gen\u00e7 bir ya\u015fta re\u015fit say\u0131lma hari\u00e7, 18 ya\u015f\u0131n alt\u0131ndaki her insan \u00e7ocuk say\u0131l\u0131r&#8221;.<br \/>\nCinsel istismara maruz kalan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015fa g\u00f6re da\u011f\u0131l\u0131mlar\u0131 incelendi\u011finde; %30&#8217;unun 2-5, %40&#8217;\u0131n\u0131n 6-10, %30&#8217;unun 11 &#8211; 17 ya\u015f grubunda oldu\u011fu g\u00f6r\u00fclmektedir.<br \/>\n\u0130stismara maruz kalan \u00e7ocuklarda k\u0131z\/erkek oran\u0131 3&#8217;t\u00fcr.<br \/>\n\u0130stismarc\u0131lar\u0131n %96&#8217;s\u0131 erkek, %80&#8217;i de \u00e7ocu\u011fun tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 birisidir<\/p>\n<p>Aile ve Sosyal Politikalar Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 diye bir bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z var\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ba\u011fl\u0131 pek \u00e7ok birimler de var\u2026<\/p>\n<p>\u201c &#8211; Aile ve Toplum Hizmetleri Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u201c , \u201c &#8211; \u00c7ocuk Hizmetleri Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u201c , \u201c &#8211; Engelli ve Ya\u015fl\u0131 hizmetleri Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u201c ve \u201c &#8211; Kad\u0131n\u0131n Stat\u00fcs\u00fc Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc \u201c bu birimlerden baz\u0131lar\u0131\u2026<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcn ge\u00e7miyor ki \u00dclkemiz; kad\u0131nlara y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet haberleriyle, \u00e7ocuk istismarlar\u0131 ve bilinen aile dramlar\u0131yla sars\u0131lmas\u0131n\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Acaba aile anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131z, aile yap\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fi\u015fiyor mu?<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye; Stratejik bir co\u011frafya \u00fczerinde do\u011fu-bat\u0131 aras\u0131nda adeta bir k\u00f6pr\u00fc durumundad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Osmanl\u0131 devletinin y\u0131k\u0131lmaya y\u00fcz tuttu\u011fu d\u00f6nemlerde k\u00f6kl\u00fc bir k\u00fclt\u00fcr de\u011fi\u015fimi ge\u00e7irmi\u015f, Osmanl\u0131 devletinin y\u0131k\u0131lmas\u0131yla birlikte kurulan gen\u00e7 T\u00fcrkiye Cumhuriyeti toplumunun yap\u0131s\u0131 de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f, aile kurumlar\u0131 da bu de\u011fi\u015fikliklerden etkilenmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>Cemiyet i\u00e7erisinde aileleri korumaya y\u00f6nelik tedbirler, asl\u0131nda cemiyeti korumaya y\u00f6nelik tedbirlerdir.<\/p>\n<p>Geleneksel T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n ahlak\u00ee, manev\u00ee, sosyolojik sa\u011flam temelleri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Son y\u0131llarda \u00e7arp\u0131k \u015fehirle\u015fme sebebiyle ananevi aile yap\u0131s\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmeye ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ge\u00e7im s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131na \u00e7are olarak kad\u0131n eme\u011fi i\u015f piyasas\u0131na s\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, bunun aile i\u00e7erisinde ortaya \u00e7\u0131karaca\u011f\u0131 problemlerin \u00e7aresi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmemi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>Bat\u0131da kad\u0131n eme\u011fi i\u015f piyasas\u0131n\u0131n i\u00e7indedir.<\/p>\n<p>Ancak ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan bo\u015flu\u011fu dolduracak tedbirler de al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrkiye\u2019de kad\u0131n\u0131 destekleyici tedbirler al\u0131nmadan kad\u0131n; Evi, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ve i\u015f yeri aras\u0131nda adeta ikiye, \u00fc\u00e7e b\u00f6l\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Bu durum aile i\u00e7erisinde \u201cAnne\u201d otoritesini sars\u0131nt\u0131ya u\u011fratm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Anne otoritesi sars\u0131nt\u0131ya u\u011fray\u0131nca e\u015f ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n aile i\u00e7erisindeki rolleri de olumsuz y\u00f6nde etkilenmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>Aile; Toplumun temelidir.<\/p>\n<p>Ailede ba\u015flayan \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclme k\u0131sa zamanda topluma akseder.<\/p>\n<p>Son y\u0131llarda televizyon programlar\u0131nda izledi\u011fimiz aileler aras\u0131nda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan \u015fiddet olaylar\u0131, ge\u00e7imsizlik sebebiyle e\u015flerin birbirinden ayr\u0131lma olaylar\u0131 ve bilinen di\u011fer aile i\u00e7i huzursuzluk ve rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n temelinde T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131s\u0131ndaki bu olumsuz geli\u015fmelerin etkisi vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Cemiyetin temelini olu\u015fturan ve toplumun en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck par\u00e7as\u0131 olan aileyi ayakta tutan baz\u0131 de\u011ferler vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu de\u011ferler \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p>Aile ve Sosyal Politikalar Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bu de\u011ferlerin ne oldu\u011funu daha a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir \u015fekilde ortaya koymal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Eski T\u00fcrk toplumunda aile i\u00e7erisinde erke\u011fe \u201cKoca\u201d ve \u201cBaba\u201d<\/p>\n<p>olarak \u00e7ok kutsal g\u00f6revler verilmi\u015fti.<\/p>\n<p>Yine eski T\u00fcrk toplumunda \u201cAnne\u201d imaj\u0131 ise; Vatan ve Millet gibi kutsal bir imaj say\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00fcrk aile gelene\u011finde anne-baba ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n birbirleriyle olan ba\u011flar\u0131 kutsal temeller \u00fczerine oturtulmu\u015ftu.<\/p>\n<p>Tarihi ve sosyolojik kurallara uymayan h\u0131zl\u0131 k\u00fclt\u00fcr de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi aile i\u00e7erisinde ge\u00e7im \u015fartlar\u0131n\u0131 zorla\u015ft\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, kad\u0131n eme\u011fi de i\u015f piyasas\u0131na s\u00fcr\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f, ailenin temel unsuru olan kad\u0131n ve erke\u011fe geleneksel T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131s\u0131nda g\u00f6r\u00fclmeyen bir ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k sa\u011flanm\u0131\u015f, bu durum \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 da etkisi alt\u0131na alm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n yeti\u015fmesi i\u00e7in gerekli olan ortam; Aile, \u00e7evre ve okul \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/p>\n<p>Bu \u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc i\u00e7erisinde \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n en \u00e7ok beraber ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ortam; Aile ortam\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun karakteri adeta anne-baba taraf\u0131ndan yo\u011frulur.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk; Disiplini, terbiyeyi, kendine g\u00fcveni, \u00e7evre ile olan uyum kabiliyetinin pek \u00e7o\u011funu ailesinden al\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Okul bu duygular\u0131 iyi y\u00f6nde geli\u015ftirir.<\/p>\n<p>Okuma \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuk g\u00fcn\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fck bir b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc ailesinin yan\u0131nda ge\u00e7irir.<\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde aileler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n e\u011fitimleriyle yeterince ilgilenememekte ve onlar\u0131n e\u011fitimini okul ve \u00e7evreye b\u0131rakmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu \u015fartlar alt\u0131nda anne-baban\u0131n birbirleriyle ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla olan aile ba\u011flar\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmeler ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bu \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fclmelerin alt\u0131nda bas\u0131n\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, televizyonlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, \u0130nternet sitelerimizin olumsuz etkileri vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Televizyonlarda yay\u0131mlanan yerli ve yabanc\u0131 diziler, \u015fiddet haberleri, \u015fiddet g\u00f6sterileri, izdiva\u00e7 programlar\u0131, \u0130nternet sitelerinde yay\u0131mlanan programlar geli\u015fme \u00e7a\u011f\u0131ndaki gen\u00e7lerimiz \u00fczerinde olumsuz etkiler b\u0131rakmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kad\u0131nlara kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddetin son bulmas\u0131 ve \u00e7ocuklara yap\u0131lan istismar\u0131n \u00f6nlenebilmesi i\u00e7in baz\u0131 tedbirler al\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n T\u00fcrk Milletinin gelenek ve g\u00f6reneklerine, \u00f6rf ve adetlerine uygun bi\u00e7imde yeti\u015ftirilebilmeleri i\u00e7in T\u00fcrk aile yap\u0131m\u0131z yabanc\u0131la\u015fmaktan kurtar\u0131lmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Aile\u2019de &#8211; okul\u2019da &#8211; \u00e7evre\u2019de, konferans ve seminerlerde, radyo-gazete, internet ve televizyonlarda milli ve manevi de\u011ferlere y\u00f6nelik \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalara daha \u00e7ok a\u011f\u0131rl\u0131k verilmelidir.<\/p>\n<p>Edebiyatta, sanatta, folklorda, m\u00fczikte milli ve manevi zevklerimize hitap eden programlar yap\u0131lmal\u0131, yeni bir \u201cM\u00fcsl\u00fcman-T\u00fcrk insan\u0131\u201d modeli olu\u015fturulmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Devlet; \u0130nsanlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n e\u011fitiminde yeniden devreye girmelidir.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130nsanlar\u0131m\u0131za \u201cYeni\u201d ve \u201cEski\u201dnin sentezi olabilecek fikirler sunulmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Aile ve Sosyal Politikalar Bakanl\u0131\u011f\u0131nca; Kad\u0131nlara y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet ve \u00e7ocuklara yap\u0131lan istismarlar ancak bu suretle \u00f6nlenebilir.<\/p>\n<p>Ho\u015f\u00e7a kal\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fcn ge\u00e7miyor ki gazete ve televizyonlarda \u015fiddete u\u011frayan kad\u0131nlar ile ilgil haberler yay\u0131mlanmas\u0131n\u2026 Yine g\u00fcn ge\u00e7miyor ki istismara u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuklardan s\u00f6z edilmesin\u2026 Bu konularda nas\u0131l bir toplum olduk anlamak m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil\u2026 Kad\u0131na y\u00f6nelik \u015fiddet konusunda ilk akla gelen fiziksel \u015fiddettir; 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