{"id":55377,"date":"2023-08-03T15:32:16","date_gmt":"2023-08-03T12:32:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=55377"},"modified":"2024-06-11T21:38:48","modified_gmt":"2024-06-11T18:38:48","slug":"topsuz-igne-dost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2023\/08\/03\/topsuz-igne-dost\/","title":{"rendered":"TOPSUZ \u0130\u011eNE: DOST\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div>*Dostluk, zevklerin, d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerinin ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin birbirine yak\u0131n olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>*Dostlukta ki\u015fisel menfaatler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmemelidir.<\/div>\n<div>*Dostluklarda zaman pek \u00f6nemi olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bir sorum ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman dost dediklerine ko\u015fabilmelisin. Kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alabilmelisin.<\/div>\n<div>*\u0130htiya\u00e7 oldu\u011funda ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na yaslayabilmelisin. Her \u015feyini g\u00fcvenebilmelisin.<\/div>\n<div>*Dost s\u0131rda\u015f olmal\u0131. Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da hastaland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da \u201ckarde\u015fim\u201d diyerek koluna girebilmelisin.<\/div>\n<div>*G\u00f6zlerin nemlendi\u011finde yakla\u015fan ya\u011fmuru g\u00f6rebilmelisin.<\/div>\n<div>*K\u0131saca: Dostluklar \u00e7\u0131karlar \u00fczerine in\u015fa edilirse \u00f6mr\u00fc k\u0131sa olur\u2026<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>CANIM \u00c7OK SIKILIYOR!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>*Bu da nereden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Bu s\u0131cakta de\u011fil mi?<\/div>\n<div>*Vallahi hakl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z nereden \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131 bu s\u0131cak yaz g\u00fcnlerinde dostluk?<\/div>\n<div>*Bu g\u00fcn can\u0131m \u00e7ok s\u0131k\u0131l\u0131yordu.<\/div>\n<div>*Bir ka\u00e7 arkada\u015f\u0131 arad\u0131m ki az dertle\u015felim diye.<\/div>\n<div>*Kimseyi bulamad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div>*Sonra zaman zaman destek oldu\u011fum \u00f6\u011frenciler vard\u0131.<\/div>\n<div>Onlar\u0131 arad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div>Ya telefonlar\u0131 a\u00e7mad\u0131lar, ya da \u00e7ok i\u015fleri oldu\u011funu ya da \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in gelemeyeceklerini s\u00f6ylediler.<\/div>\n<div>*Ben de bir dost arad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>DOSTU ARADIM-<\/div>\n<div>Abidin G\u00dcNEYL\u0130<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Hep akl\u0131m\u0131 sa\u00e7ma \u015feye yorarken<\/div>\n<div>Bu defa oturdum dostu arad\u0131m<\/div>\n<div>Gece yoklu\u011funa saat kurarken<\/div>\n<div>Bu defa oturdum dostu arad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Deniz senin gibi sessiz ve durgun<\/div>\n<div>G\u00f6n\u00fcl benim gibi yorgun mu yorgun<\/div>\n<div>Elimi uzatt\u0131m herkes mi k\u0131rg\u0131n<\/div>\n<div>Bu defa oturdum dostu arad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Su da y\u00fccelerde derya olunca<\/div>\n<div>Deniz b\u00fcy\u00fck sele mahk\u00fbm kal\u0131nca<\/div>\n<div>K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131rg\u0131nl\u0131kla g\u00fcller solunca<\/div>\n<div>Ba\u015fka \u00e7arem yoktu dostu arad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Candan inanarak \u00e7ok sevdiklerim<\/div>\n<div>San\u0131yordum a\u00e7ar dost dediklerim<\/div>\n<div>Birer birer ka\u00e7t\u0131 dost bildiklerim<\/div>\n<div>Ba\u015fka \u00e7arem yoktu dostu arad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>AMA NE YAZIK K\u0130..!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>*Ama ne yaz\u0131k ki hi\u00e7 dost bulamad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div>*Yetkiliyken; \u201c\u015eu adam buradan ge\u00e7se de bir \u00e7ay ikram etsek\u201d diye kap\u0131 \u00f6n\u00fcnde n\u00f6bet tutanlar, beni g\u00f6r\u00fcnce s\u0131rt\u0131n\u0131 d\u00f6nmeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar.<\/div>\n<div>*Kendi kendimi sorgulad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div>Acaba ben mi de\u011fi\u015ftim yoksa kar\u015f\u0131mdakiler mi diye.<\/div>\n<div>*Bilerek hi\u00e7 kimsenin kalbini k\u0131rmad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div>*Hi\u00e7 kimseye bilerek bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapmad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div>*Hi\u00e7 kimsenin bilerek ekme\u011fine mani olmad\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div>*\u00d6mr\u00fcm; neredeyse g\u00fcc\u00fcm oran\u0131nda yard\u0131m ederek ge\u00e7ti.<\/div>\n<div>*Eeee\u2026 Peki, bu ne?<\/div>\n<div>*Bana bir \u015fiiri ve bir yaz\u0131 yazd\u0131rd\u0131 vefas\u0131zlar.<\/div>\n<div>*Dost bildiklerim.<\/div>\n<div>*Yine de sa\u011fl\u0131k olsun Allah herkese g\u00f6nl\u00fcne g\u00f6re versin.<\/div>\n<div>*Ve \u015funa karar verdim.<\/div>\n<div>*Yetkili olursan, etkili oluyorsun bu devirde.<\/div>\n<div>*Bu sebeple k\u00f6\u015feme \u00e7ekildim oturuyorum.<\/div>\n<div>*Dost deyince akl\u0131ma geldi. Bu f\u0131kra ile yaz\u0131y\u0131 bitireyim.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>GER\u00c7EK DOST!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>*Adam\u0131n birinin y\u00fcksek bir makama tayini \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f olmu\u015f. G\u00fcvendi\u011fi bir ka\u00e7 hem\u015ferisini etkili ve yetkili;<\/div>\n<div>M\u00fcste\u015far, Genel M\u00fcd\u00fcr, Daire Ba\u015fkan\u0131 ve \u015eube M\u00fcd\u00fcr\u00fc olarak g\u00f6revlere getirmi\u015f.<\/div>\n<div>Bir toplant\u0131da bu etkili ve yetkili hem\u015ferileri sormu\u015flar.<\/div>\n<div>&#8211; Ger\u00e7ek dostlar\u0131n\u0131z kimlerdir say\u0131n hem\u015ferim?<\/div>\n<div>Yan\u0131t;<\/div>\n<div>&#8211; \u201c\u015eimdi g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcm, yetkiliyim. Bir dedi\u011fim iki edilmiyor. Bu g\u00f6revden ayr\u0131l\u0131nca b\u00fct\u00fcn yetkiler gidecek.<\/div>\n<div>\u0130\u015fte o zaman aray\u0131p soracak olanlar ger\u00e7ek dostlar\u0131md\u0131r.\u201d demi\u015f.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u00c7ARPITILMAMI\u015e S\u00d6ZLER:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Domuzdan post g\u00e2vurdan dost olmaz.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>*Dostluk, zevklerin, d\u00fcnya g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerinin ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin birbirine yak\u0131n olmas\u0131d\u0131r. *Dostlukta ki\u015fisel menfaatler d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmemelidir. *Dostluklarda zaman pek \u00f6nemi olmamal\u0131d\u0131r. Bir sorum ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman dost dediklerine ko\u015fabilmelisin. Kap\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7alabilmelisin. *\u0130htiya\u00e7 oldu\u011funda ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131 omuzlar\u0131na yaslayabilmelisin. Her \u015feyini g\u00fcvenebilmelisin. *Dost s\u0131rda\u015f olmal\u0131. Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da hastaland\u0131\u011f\u0131nda da \u201ckarde\u015fim\u201d diyerek koluna girebilmelisin. *G\u00f6zlerin nemlendi\u011finde yakla\u015fan ya\u011fmuru g\u00f6rebilmelisin. *K\u0131saca: Dostluklar \u00e7\u0131karlar \u00fczerine [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55377","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-abidin-guneyli"],"views":77,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55377","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55377"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55377\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}