{"id":37207,"date":"2022-10-19T14:28:21","date_gmt":"2022-10-19T11:28:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=37207"},"modified":"2025-02-18T09:31:48","modified_gmt":"2025-02-18T06:31:48","slug":"safak-genc-kadin-olmak-ayri-anne-olmak-ayri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2022\/10\/19\/safak-genc-kadin-olmak-ayri-anne-olmak-ayri\/","title":{"rendered":"\u015eAFAK GEN\u00c7: Kad\u0131n Olmak Ayr\u0131 Anne Olmak Ayr\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\":1g1\" class=\"Ar Au Ao\">\n<div id=\":1fx\" class=\"Am Al editable LW-avf tS-tW tS-tY\" tabindex=\"1\" role=\"textbox\" contenteditable=\"true\" spellcheck=\"false\" aria-label=\"\u0130leti G\u00f6vdesi\" aria-multiline=\"true\" aria-owns=\":1ir\" aria-controls=\":1ir\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Seven sevdi\u011fine sar\u0131l\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Sar\u0131lmazsa da hayat \u00f6yle bir \u00f6\u011fretir ki ona ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, seve seve \u00f6\u011frenir k\u0131sacas\u0131. \u2018Bir bela bir musibet gelirse ondan \u00f6nce bana u\u011fras\u0131n, bana gelsin ona gelmesin\u2019 diye konu\u015fuyor.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Baz\u0131lar\u0131 var ki \u2018bana gelece\u011fine ona gelsin\u2019 mant\u0131\u011f\u0131nda.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Sevdi\u011finden sevildi\u011finden bi haber.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Yan\u0131nda m\u0131, uzakta m\u0131 ruhsal olarak fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f!<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Geli\u015fen toplumlar\u0131n en b\u00fcy\u00fck sorunlar\u0131ndan biridir insani ili\u015fkilerin kaybolmas\u0131, toplumu ayakta tutan dinamiklerden birileri olan t\u00f6re, \u00f6rf, sayg\u0131 gibi kavramlar\u0131n yok olmas\u0131.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz insanlar\u0131 olarak bu k\u00f6t\u00fc senaryonun filmini \u00e7ekmeye, toplumsal d\u00fczeni bozup kaos \u00e7\u0131karmak isteyenlerin ekme\u011fine \u00e7ok g\u00fczel ya\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcr\u00fcyoruz.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Ger\u00e7i ben s\u00fcrm\u00fcyorum s\u00fcrenler belli.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Farz\u0131 mahal yolda Y\u00fcr\u00fcrken Anne \u00c7ocu\u011funun elini tutar.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\u00c7o\u011fu Anne de \u00c7ocu\u011fun 3 metre \u00f6n\u00fcnden gidiyor elinde telefonla mesajla\u015f\u0131yor.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Arkadan gelen \u00e7ocu\u011fu araba m\u0131 \u00e7arpar, ba\u015f\u0131na bi\u015fey mi gelmi\u015f umurunda de\u011fil!<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Sen Annesin yahu bi \u00e7ocu\u011funu merak etmezmisin.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\u201cBenim bir evlad\u0131m var, benim can\u0131m\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 var\u201d demezmisin.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Sen yolda b\u00f6yle isen evde nas\u0131ls\u0131n anlamak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok beyin yormaya, mant\u0131k y\u00fcr\u00fctmeye \u00f6yle istatistiksel verilere falan gerek de yok yani.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Bence evlenmeden \u00f6nce anne baba testi yap\u0131lmas\u0131 laz\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Psikolojik \u015fartlara uygun olmayanlar\u0131n evlenmesine izin verilmemesi laz\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Durup d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum acaba o \u00e7ocuk evlatl\u0131k m\u0131?Yoksa gayri me\u015fru mu!<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\u0130nsan, evlad\u0131n\u0131n, sevdiklerinin ba\u015f\u0131na bir \u015fey gelecek diye \u00f6d\u00fc patlar.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\u015eimdikilerde \u00f6yle bir \u015fey yok azizim.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Velhas\u0131l\u0131 kelam sevdiklerim;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">erkek olmak ayr\u0131, adam olmak ayr\u0131, BABA OLMAK ayr\u0131\u2026<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Kad\u0131n olmak ayr\u0131, Han\u0131m olmak ayr\u0131, ANNE OLMAK apayr\u0131 \u015feylerdir.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\">Sa\u011fl\u0131cakla ve Y\u00fcz\u00fcn\u00fczde G\u00fcl\u00fcmsemelerinizle Kal\u0131n\u0131z\u2026<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Seven sevdi\u011fine sar\u0131l\u0131r. Sar\u0131lmazsa da hayat \u00f6yle bir \u00f6\u011fretir ki ona ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini, seve seve \u00f6\u011frenir k\u0131sacas\u0131. \u2018Bir bela bir musibet gelirse ondan \u00f6nce bana u\u011fras\u0131n, bana gelsin ona gelmesin\u2019 diye konu\u015fuyor. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 var ki \u2018bana gelece\u011fine ona gelsin\u2019 mant\u0131\u011f\u0131nda. Sevdi\u011finden sevildi\u011finden bi haber. Yan\u0131nda m\u0131, uzakta m\u0131 ruhsal olarak fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kaybetmi\u015f! Geli\u015fen toplumlar\u0131n [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":92089,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37207","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-safak-genc"],"views":114,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37207","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37207"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37207\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92089"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37207"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37207"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37207"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}