{"id":35746,"date":"2022-09-28T13:35:44","date_gmt":"2022-09-28T10:35:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=35746"},"modified":"2024-06-11T21:34:18","modified_gmt":"2024-06-11T18:34:18","slug":"sohbet-kosesi-hosgorulu-olmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2022\/09\/28\/sohbet-kosesi-hosgorulu-olmak\/","title":{"rendered":"SOHBET K\u00d6\u015eES\u0130: HO\u015eG\u00d6R\u00dcL\u00dc OLMAK\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\u0130nternet siteme gelen sorularda biri Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc \u00fczerine\u2026<\/div>\n<div>Bayan Saliha \u00d6zsoy\u2019un sorusu \u015fu:<\/div>\n<div>Diyor ki: \u2018\u2019 Ben emekli \u00f6\u011fretmenim. \u00d6\u011fretmenlik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m d\u00f6nemlerde insanlar aras\u0131nda anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmak ve m\u00fcsamahal\u0131 davranmak \u00f6n plandayd\u0131. \u015eimdilerde ba\u015fta TBMM olmak \u00fczere siyasiler bile halk\u0131m\u0131za \u00f6rnek olmalar\u0131 gerekirken birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 hi\u00e7 te anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc, m\u00fcsamahal\u0131 davranm\u0131yorlar\u2026<\/div>\n<div>\u00c7ar\u015f\u0131da, pazarda, i\u015f yerlerinde, okullarda Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc olmay\u0131 ve birbirimize kar\u015f\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 davranmay\u0131 unuttuk\u2026<\/div>\n<div>Acaba neden?<\/div>\n<div>\u0130sl\u00e2miyet kat\u0131 kurallar dini midir, yoksa ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc dini midir?<\/div>\n<div>Bu konularda Ayet ve Hadis var m\u0131d\u0131r?<\/div>\n<div>Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ile ilgili ilim adamlar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri \u0130sl\u00e2m\u2019\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fc ile \u00e7eli\u015fkiye d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fcyor mu?<\/div>\n<div>Tarihte ne gibi ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc \u00f6rnekleri vard\u0131r?\u2019\u2019<\/div>\n<div>Sevgili Saliha han\u0131ma verdi\u011fim cevab\u0131 sizlerle de payla\u015fmak istiyorum:<\/div>\n<div>Peygamber efendimiz: \u201cFarzlarla emrolundu\u011fum gibi, insanlarla iyi ge\u00e7inmekle de emrolundum.\u201d buyuruyor.<\/div>\n<div>Bu bir hadis-i \u015eeriftir.<\/div>\n<div>Yorumu ise: M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u2019\u0131n \u00e7evresi ile iyi ge\u00e7inen, kendisi ile iyi ge\u00e7inilen kimse olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Benzer hadisler de vard\u0131r:<\/div>\n<div>\u201cAk\u0131ll\u0131 olman\u0131n ve ak\u0131ll\u0131 ya\u015faman\u0131n ilk ad\u0131m\u0131, halka sevgi ve \u015fefkat g\u00f6stermektir.\u201d<\/div>\n<div>\u201cSiz insanlar\u0131 mal-m\u00fclkle tatmin edemezsiniz. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 ancak g\u00fczel ahl\u00e2k, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ve g\u00fclery\u00fcz tatmin eder.\u201d<\/div>\n<div>\u201cBir kimsenin m\u00fc\u2019min karde\u015fine sevgi ve \u015fefkatle bakmas\u0131, mescide kapan\u0131p bir y\u0131l nafile ibadet etmesinden daha hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r,\u201d<\/div>\n<div>Bu anlay\u0131\u015f Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019da \u00e2lem\u015f\u00fcmul \u201cinsan sevgisini.\u201d, Yunus Emre\u2019de cihan\u015f\u00fcmul \u201cYunus \u015fefkatini olu\u015fturmu\u015ftur.<\/div>\n<div>Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2\u2019n\u0131n \u201cGel!\u201d \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n, Yunus\u2019un \u201cYarat\u0131lan her \u015feyi yaratan hat\u0131r\u0131na ho\u015f g\u00f6rme\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n manas\u0131 budur.<\/div>\n<div>Sadi\u2019nin \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fc bu manay\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klamaktad\u0131r:<\/div>\n<div>\u201cAk\u0131ls\u0131z insan o kimsedir ki, Allah ile iyi olay\u0131m derken, Allah\u2019\u0131n kullar\u0131 ile k\u00f6t\u00fc olur.\u201d<\/div>\n<div>Allah\u2019\u0131n ho\u015fnutlu\u011fu da, kullar\u0131n ho\u015fnutlu\u011funa ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Ayet ve hadislerden kaynaklanan, Mevl\u00e2n\u00e2 gibi, Yunus gibi, Sad\u00ee ve Haf\u0131z gibi b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin hayatlar\u0131nda sanatla\u015fan \u201cm\u00fcsamaha\u201d duygusu, tarih boyunca M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u2019\u0131n ahl\u00e2k\u0131 olmu\u015ftur.<\/div>\n<div>Hz. Peygamber Hudeybiye Muahedesi\u2019nde, m\u00fc\u015friklerin ileri s\u00fcrd\u00fckleri a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 \u015fartlar\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015fla kar\u015f\u0131lam\u0131\u015f, Hayber\u2019in fethinde ele ge\u00e7irilen Tevrat n\u00fcshalar\u0131n\u0131 sahiplerine iade etmi\u015f, fethedilen topraklarda ya\u015fayan gayri m\u00fcslimleri kendi inan\u00e7 ve ibadetlerinde serbest b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>\u0130sl\u00e2m tarihinin her safhas\u0131nda ve sayfas\u0131nda bu uygulaman\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131z misalleri vard\u0131r:<\/div>\n<div>Hulefa-y\u0131 R\u00e2\u015fidin, ondan sonra gelen b\u00fct\u00fcn halife ve devlet ba\u015fkanlar\u0131 sava\u015f esnas\u0131nda bile ya\u015fl\u0131lara, hastalara, \u00e7ocuklara, ibadet edenlere, rahip ve ke\u015fi\u015flere dokunulmamas\u0131n\u0131 emretmi\u015flerdir.<\/div>\n<div>Kud\u00fcs\u2019\u00fcn fethinden sonra yerli halk ayin ve ibadetlerinde tamamen serbest b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar, \u0130stanbul \u2018un fethinden sonra H\u0131ristiyan halka m\u00fcsamahadan da \u00f6te geni\u015f imtiyazlar tan\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Emev\u00eeler\u2019de, Abbasilerde, Sel\u00e7uklular\u2019da, Osmanl\u0131lar\u2019da hep ayn\u0131 anlay\u0131\u015f h\u00e2kim olmu\u015ftur.<\/div>\n<div>Osmanl\u0131lar Do\u011fu Avrupa\u2019da h\u00fck\u00fcmran olduklar\u0131 500 y\u0131l boyunca yerli H\u0131ristiyan halk\u0131n ayinine, ibadetine, lisan\u0131na, ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f ve gelene\u011fine dokunmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Voltaire\u2019in \u015fu s\u00f6z\u00fc bir itiraft\u0131r:<\/div>\n<div>\u201cHi\u00e7bir H\u0131ristiyan devleti, kendi topraklar\u0131nda M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u0131n bir cami bulunmas\u0131na m\u00fcsaade etmemi\u015ftir. Halbuk\u00ee M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar,H\u0131ristiyanlar\u2019\u0131n kiliselerine her zaman m\u00fcsamaha g\u00f6stermi\u015flerdir.\u201d<\/div>\n<div>\u00dcnl\u00fc Gustave le Bon; \u0130sl\u00e2miyet\u2019in h\u0131zla yay\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 bu m\u00fcsamahaya ba\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:<\/div>\n<div>\u201cKur\u2019\u00e2n\u0131n yay\u0131lmas\u0131nda, kuvvetin hi\u00e7bir tesiri olmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.Zira,M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar, ma\u011fl\u00fbp milletleri dinlerinde serbest b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. E\u011fer H\u0131ristiyan milletler \u0130sl\u00e2miyet\u2019i kabul etmi\u015flerse, bunun sebebi M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar\u2019\u0131n kendilerine kar\u015f\u0131 eski h\u00fck\u00fcmdarlar\u0131ndan daha \u00e2dil ve m\u00fcsamahal\u0131 davranmalar\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d<\/div>\n<div>M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanlar, ferd\u00ee hayatlar\u0131nda, toplu ya\u015fay\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda, M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmayanlara kar\u015f\u0131 kendi aralar\u0131nda, sava\u015fta, bar\u0131\u015fta, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcy\u00fc bir davran\u0131\u015f \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc saym\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Kimseye kin tutmam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>G\u00f6n\u00fcl y\u0131kmay\u0131 de\u011fil, g\u00f6n\u00fcl almay\u0131 tercih etmi\u015flerdir. Zira m\u00fcsamaha, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc M\u00fcsl\u00fcman\u2019\u0131n ahlak\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Ho\u015f\u00e7a kal\u0131n\u0131z.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nternet siteme gelen sorularda biri Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc \u00fczerine\u2026 Bayan Saliha \u00d6zsoy\u2019un sorusu \u015fu: Diyor ki: \u2018\u2019 Ben emekli \u00f6\u011fretmenim. \u00d6\u011fretmenlik yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m d\u00f6nemlerde insanlar aras\u0131nda anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131 olmak ve m\u00fcsamahal\u0131 davranmak \u00f6n plandayd\u0131. \u015eimdilerde ba\u015fta TBMM olmak \u00fczere siyasiler bile halk\u0131m\u0131za \u00f6rnek olmalar\u0131 gerekirken birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 hi\u00e7 te anlay\u0131\u015fl\u0131, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc, m\u00fcsamahal\u0131 davranm\u0131yorlar\u2026 \u00c7ar\u015f\u0131da, pazarda, i\u015f yerlerinde, okullarda Ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":35429,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-35746","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gazi-mert"],"views":133,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35746","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=35746"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/35746\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/35429"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=35746"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=35746"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=35746"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}