{"id":17439,"date":"2022-01-06T14:25:36","date_gmt":"2022-01-06T11:25:36","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=17439"},"modified":"2024-06-11T21:34:36","modified_gmt":"2024-06-11T18:34:36","slug":"gazi-mert-sohbet-kosesi-erkekler-ev-islerinde-eslerine-yardimci-olmalidir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2022\/01\/06\/gazi-mert-sohbet-kosesi-erkekler-ev-islerinde-eslerine-yardimci-olmalidir\/","title":{"rendered":"GAZ\u0130 MERT-SOHBET K\u00d6\u015eES\u0130: ERKEKLER EV \u0130\u015eLER\u0130NDE E\u015eLER\u0130NE YARDIMCI OLMALIDIR"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\":1ox\" class=\"Ar Au Ao\">\n<div id=\":1p1\" class=\"Am Al editable LW-avf tS-tW tS-tY\" tabindex=\"1\" role=\"textbox\" contenteditable=\"true\" spellcheck=\"false\" aria-label=\"\u0130leti G\u00f6vdesi\" aria-multiline=\"true\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\">\n<div>\u0130nternet sitemin ( gazimert.net ) \u201cSorunuz S\u00f6yleyelim\u201d k\u00f6\u015fesine gelen sorular\u0131 bazen mektupla, bazen telefonla, bazen yaz\u0131 yazmakta oldu\u011fun gazetelerde ve gazetelerin \u0130nternet sitelerinde cevapland\u0131r\u0131yorum.<\/div>\n<div>2021 y\u0131l\u0131nda yakla\u015f\u0131k 100\u2019lerce karde\u015fimizin sorular\u0131n\u0131 cevapland\u0131rd\u0131m\u2026<\/div>\n<div>2021 y\u0131l\u0131nda cevapland\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m onlarca soru var\u2026<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Bunlardan biri bayan Ay\u015fe \u00d6zsoy\u2019a ait\u2026<\/div>\n<div>\u00a0Bug\u00fcn sizlerle Ay\u015fe han\u0131m\u0131n sorusunu ve verdi\u011fim cevab\u0131 payla\u015faca\u011f\u0131m:<\/div>\n<div>Soru \u015fu: \u2018\u2019Ben 22 ya\u015f\u0131nda gen\u00e7 bir k\u0131z\u0131m.<\/div>\n<div>Televizyonlarda yay\u0131mlanan Kad\u0131nlara y\u00f6nelik programlar\u0131ndaki kad\u0131nlara yap\u0131lan olumsuzluklar\u0131 ve de \u00f6zellikle Televizyonda \u201cKAKILMI\u015e\u201d tiplemesini g\u00f6rd\u00fckten sonra evlenmekten korkuyorum.<\/div>\n<div>Ya alaca\u011f\u0131m gen\u00e7 bana ayn\u0131 eziyeti yaparsa diye endi\u015feleniyorum.<\/div>\n<div>Dini konularla ilgili k\u00f6\u015fenizde yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 ve sorulara verdiniz cevaplar\u0131 \u00f6zellikle internet sitenizi \u00e7ok be\u011feniyorum.<\/div>\n<div>Biz kad\u0131nlar ve gen\u00e7 k\u0131zlar dinimize g\u00f6re ev i\u015flerini yapmaya mecbur muyuz?<\/div>\n<div>Erkekler ev i\u015flerinde e\u015flerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olamazlar m\u0131?<\/div>\n<div>Din bu yard\u0131mla\u015fmay\u0131 yasakl\u0131yor mu? \u2018\u2019<\/div>\n<div>Soru bu:<\/div>\n<div>\u00a0Evlenmek ve yuva kurmak her bayan ve erkek i\u00e7in en tabii ve medeni bir g\u00f6revdir.<\/div>\n<div>Cenab\u0131 Allah taraf\u0131ndan Nahl suresinin 72?inci ayetinde:<\/div>\n<div>\u201cAllah size kendinizden e\u015fler var eder. E\u015flerinizden de o\u011fullar ve torunlar var eder. Size temiz \u015feylerden r\u0131z\u0131k verir. \u00d6yleyse b\u00e2t\u0131la inan\u0131yorlar ve Allah\u2019\u0131n nimetini inkar m\u0131 ediyorlar?\u201d buyuruyor.<\/div>\n<div>K\u00fct\u00fcb-\u00fc Sitte\u2019de bulunan bir Hadis-i \u015eerifte de Peygamberimiz: \u201cEy gen\u00e7ler toplulu\u011fu. Sizden evlenmeye g\u00fcc\u00fc yetenler evleniversin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o g\u00f6z\u00fc daha bir koruyucu iffeti daha bir muhafaza edicidir.\u201d buyurmaktad\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>M\u00fcsl\u00fcman-T\u00fcrk milletinin ya\u015fay\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ailenin yeri ve \u00f6nemi \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr.<\/div>\n<div>Toplumumuzun b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlar\u0131 aile denilen kutsal \u00e7at\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda milli ve ahlaki de\u011ferleri benimseyip mutlu bir hayat ya\u015faman\u0131n gayreti i\u00e7inde olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Televizyonda yay\u0131mlanan kad\u0131n programlar\u0131nda ve \u00f6zellikle \u201cKAKILMI\u015e\u201d tiplemesine bak\u0131p evlenmekten korkman\u0131za gerek yoktur.<\/div>\n<div>Bu programlar\u0131 yapanlar, kak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f tiplemeyi ortaya koyan yazar, y\u00f6netmen ve oyuncular \u00f6yle san\u0131yorum ki; \u201cb\u00f6yle olun\u201d mesaj\u0131n\u0131 vermek de\u011fil, \u201cb\u00f6yle olmay\u0131n\u201d mesaj\u0131n\u0131 vermek istemi\u015flerdir.<\/div>\n<div>Aksini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek insanl\u0131kta ve \u0130slaml\u0131kla ba\u011fda\u015fmaz.<\/div>\n<div>M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanl\u0131kta ahlaki temeller \u00fczerine kurulmu\u015f bir ailede; mutluluk, dirlik-d\u00fczenlik, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi-sayg\u0131 vard\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Feth\u00fc-l Bar\u00ee isimli Arap\u00e7a eserde belirtildi\u011fine g\u00f6re; Evin her t\u00fcrl\u00fc ihtiyac\u0131 erkek taraf\u0131ndan kar\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Bununla birlikte kad\u0131n\u0131n kocas\u0131na hizmet etme zorunlulu\u011fu da vard\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Bunlar kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi-sayg\u0131 esas\u0131na dayal\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z; \u201cKad\u0131nlar ev i\u015flerini yapmaya mecbur de\u011fildir.\u201d diyerek nas\u0131l bir kenara \u00e7ekilemezse erkeklerimiz de hem ev i\u015flerini hem de evin d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki i\u015fleri kad\u0131nlara b\u0131rakamaz.<\/div>\n<div>Hayat\u0131n m\u00fc\u015fterek oldu\u011fu unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Kad\u0131n erke\u011fin hizmet\u00e7isi de\u011fil, onun hayat arkada\u015f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Erkek zaman-zaman ev i\u015flerinde e\u015fine de yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Erkek ona yard\u0131mc\u0131 olurken kad\u0131nlar da adeta bir ibadet niyetiyle kocas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Peygamberimiz ev i\u015flerinde e\u015fine daima yard\u0131ma olmu\u015ftur.<\/div>\n<div>Size tavsiyemiz mutlu bir yuva kurmak i\u00e7in an\u0131lan programlarda ge\u00e7en olumsuzluklar\u0131 ve KAKILMI\u015e tiplemesini unutman\u0131z, adresinize g\u00f6nderdi\u011fimiz din\u00ee yay\u0131nlar\u0131n evlenmeyle ilgili b\u00f6l\u00fcmlerini okuman\u0131zd\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>Ho\u015f\u00e7a kal\u0131n\u0131z.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130nternet sitemin ( gazimert.net ) \u201cSorunuz S\u00f6yleyelim\u201d k\u00f6\u015fesine gelen sorular\u0131 bazen mektupla, bazen telefonla, bazen yaz\u0131 yazmakta oldu\u011fun gazetelerde ve gazetelerin \u0130nternet sitelerinde cevapland\u0131r\u0131yorum. 2021 y\u0131l\u0131nda yakla\u015f\u0131k 100\u2019lerce karde\u015fimizin sorular\u0131n\u0131 cevapland\u0131rd\u0131m\u2026 2021 y\u0131l\u0131nda cevapland\u0131ramad\u0131\u011f\u0131m onlarca soru var\u2026 Bunlardan biri bayan Ay\u015fe \u00d6zsoy\u2019a ait\u2026 \u00a0Bug\u00fcn sizlerle Ay\u015fe han\u0131m\u0131n sorusunu ve verdi\u011fim cevab\u0131 payla\u015faca\u011f\u0131m: Soru \u015fu: \u2018\u2019Ben [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-17439","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-gazi-mert"],"views":41,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17439","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=17439"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/17439\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=17439"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=17439"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=17439"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}