{"id":146830,"date":"2026-10-17T10:26:20","date_gmt":"2026-10-17T07:26:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=146830"},"modified":"2026-10-17T10:26:20","modified_gmt":"2026-10-17T07:26:20","slug":"mukemmeliyetci-degil-memnuniyetsiziz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2026\/10\/17\/mukemmeliyetci-degil-memnuniyetsiziz\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00dcKEMMEL\u0130YET\u00c7\u0130 DE\u011e\u0130L MEMNUN\u0130YETS\u0130Z\u0130Z!"},"content":{"rendered":"
Kendimize hep ayn\u0131 yalan\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz:<\/div>\n
“Ben m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7iyim.”<\/div>\n
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Hay\u0131r, de\u011filsin.<\/div>\n
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Sen m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i de\u011fil, memnuniyetsizsin.<\/div>\n
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M\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i insan en iyisini yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015ften huzur duyar. Memnuniyetsiz insan ise en iyisi olsa bile huzursuzdur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sorunu i\u015fte de\u011fil, i\u00e7indedir.<\/div>\n
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Bizim sorunumuz bu.<\/div>\n
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Evimiz var, memnun de\u011filiz. Daha b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc var ya…<\/div>\n
\u0130\u015fimiz var, memnun de\u011filiz. Daha rahat\u0131 var ya…<\/div>\n
E\u015fimiz, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz var, memnun de\u011filiz. Elaleminki daha mutlu ya…<\/div>\n
Yeme\u011fimiz var, memnun de\u011filiz. Foto\u011frafta g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz daha g\u00fczeldi ya…<\/div>\n
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Hep daha fazlas\u0131. Hep ba\u015fka bir \u015fey. Hep bir eksik.<\/div>\n
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M\u00fckemmel olsun diye u\u011fra\u015fm\u0131yoruz asl\u0131nda. Hi\u00e7bir \u015feyden tatmin olamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in bahane uyduruyoruz. Ad\u0131na da “m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7ilik” diyoruz ki haval\u0131 dursun.<\/div>\n
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Oysa Kur’an bize bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n ad\u0131n\u0131 1400 y\u0131l \u00f6nce koymu\u015f: Nank\u00f6rl\u00fck.<\/div>\n
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“\u0130nsan ger\u00e7ekten \u00e7ok nank\u00f6rd\u00fcr.” [Adiyat 6]<\/div>\n
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Nank\u00f6rl\u00fck ne demek biliyor musun? Elindeki nimeti g\u00f6rmeyip, elinde olmayan\u0131 dert etmek.<\/div>\n
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\u015eeytan\u0131n en sevdi\u011fi oyun bu. Sana sahip olduklar\u0131n\u0131 unutturur, sahip olmad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131r. Ve sen b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn olmayanlar i\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcrs\u00fcn. Olanlar i\u00e7in ise bir kez bile “Elhamd\u00fclillah” demezsin.<\/div>\n
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Bak Peygamberimiz (s.a.v) ne diyor:<\/div>\n
“Sizden biriniz mal ve yarat\u0131l\u0131\u015f bak\u0131m\u0131ndan kendinden \u00fcst\u00fcn olana bakmas\u0131n, kendinden a\u015fa\u011f\u0131da olana baks\u0131n. Bu, Allah’\u0131n \u00fczerinizdeki nimetini k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsememeniz i\u00e7in daha uygundur.” [M\u00fcslim]<\/div>\n
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\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm \u00e7ok basit.<\/div>\n
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M\u00fckemmeli aramay\u0131 b\u0131rak, mevcuda \u015f\u00fckretmeye ba\u015fla.<\/div>\n
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\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc m\u00fckemmeli ararken mutsuz oluyorsun, mevcuda \u015f\u00fckredince mutlu oluyorsun.<\/div>\n
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Bu ev m\u00fckemmel de\u011fil ama s\u0131cak. Elhamd\u00fclillah.<\/div>\n
Bu hayat m\u00fckemmel de\u011fil ama devam ediyor. Elhamd\u00fclillah.<\/div>\n
Ben m\u00fckemmel de\u011filim ama Allah beni hala affediyor. Elhamd\u00fclillah.<\/div>\n
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M\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7ilik seni cennete g\u00f6t\u00fcrmez. Memnuniyetsizlik ise cehennemi daha d\u00fcnyadayken ya\u015fat\u0131r.<\/div>\n
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B\u0131rak m\u00fckemmel olmay\u0131.<\/div>\n
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Raz\u0131 ol. \u015e\u00fckret. Memnun ol.<\/div>\n
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Kendimize hep ayn\u0131 yalan\u0131 s\u00f6yl\u00fcyoruz: “Ben m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7iyim.” Hay\u0131r, de\u011filsin. Sen m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i de\u011fil, memnuniyetsizsin. M\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i insan en iyisini yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r ve yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u015ften huzur duyar. Memnuniyetsiz insan ise en iyisi olsa bile huzursuzdur. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc sorunu i\u015fte de\u011fil, i\u00e7indedir. Bizim sorunumuz bu. Evimiz var, memnun de\u011filiz. Daha b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc var ya… \u0130\u015fimiz var, memnun de\u011filiz. Daha rahat\u0131 var […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":145850,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[142],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-146830","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ecem-akkus"],"views":258,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146830","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=146830"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146830\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":146831,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/146830\/revisions\/146831"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/145850"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=146830"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=146830"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=146830"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}