{"id":145095,"date":"2026-10-01T11:46:42","date_gmt":"2026-10-01T08:46:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=145095"},"modified":"2026-10-01T11:46:42","modified_gmt":"2026-10-01T08:46:42","slug":"sevgisiz-buyuyen-cocuk-herkesten-intikam-alir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2026\/10\/01\/sevgisiz-buyuyen-cocuk-herkesten-intikam-alir\/","title":{"rendered":"SEVG\u0130S\u0130Z B\u00dcY\u00dcYEN \u00c7OCUK HERKESTEN \u0130NT\u0130KAM ALIR"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>Bir \u00e7ocuk su\u00e7 i\u015flemeden \u00f6nce, asl\u0131nda toplum o \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 su\u00e7 i\u015flemi\u015ftir.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Biz hep sonuca bak\u0131yoruz. Man\u015fete bak\u0131yoruz:<\/div>\n<div>&#8220;14 ya\u015f\u0131nda gasp yapt\u0131&#8221;,<\/div>\n<div>&#8220;16 ya\u015f\u0131nda yasakl\u0131 maddeden yakaland\u0131.&#8221;<\/div>\n<div>K\u0131z\u0131yoruz, lanetliyoruz, &#8220;Nerede bu devlet, nerede bu aile?&#8221; diyoruz.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Peki hi\u00e7 ba\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fcp bak\u0131yor muyuz?<\/div>\n<div>O \u00e7ocuk o su\u00e7a nas\u0131l s\u00fcr\u00fcklendi?<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Sevgi ve g\u00fcven ortam\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcmeyen bir \u00e7ocuk, d\u00fcnyay\u0131 d\u00fc\u015fman olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ilk \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi \u015fey sevilmemektir.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Evde sar\u0131lmayan bir \u00e7ocuk, sokakta yumrukla sar\u0131lmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenir.<\/div>\n<div>Dinlenmeyen bir \u00e7ocuk, sesini ba\u011f\u0131rmak zorunda oldu\u011funu zanneder.<\/div>\n<div>De\u011fer g\u00f6rmeyen bir \u00e7ocuk, de\u011feri \u00e7almada, gasp etmede, korkutmakta arar.<\/div>\n<div>&#8220;Bana kimse sahip \u00e7\u0131kmad\u0131&#8221; diyen bir \u00e7ocuk, gidip yanl\u0131\u015f insanlara sahip olur.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa &#8220;Seni seviyorum&#8221; demedi\u011finizde, o sevgiyi ba\u015fka yerde arar.<\/div>\n<div>Ve sokak, sevgiyi asla bedava vermez.<\/div>\n<div>Bir paket t\u00fct\u00fcn \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, yasakl\u0131 madde kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, bir \u00e7eteye sadakat kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda verir.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>G\u00fcven ortam\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcmeyen \u00e7ocuk, kimseye g\u00fcvenmez. Kurallara g\u00fcvenmez, polise g\u00fcvenmez, \u00f6\u011fretmene g\u00fcvenmez.<\/div>\n<div>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ona ilk g\u00fcvenmesi gerekenler, anne ve babas\u0131 bile g\u00fcven vermemi\u015ftir. S\u00f6z verip tutmam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Yan\u0131nda olmam\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Ve g\u00fcvenmeyen \u00e7ocuk, korkar. Korkan \u00e7ocuk da sald\u0131rganla\u015f\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Su\u00e7a s\u00fcr\u00fcklenen \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n dosyas\u0131na bak\u0131n, y\u00fczde 90&#8217;\u0131nda ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmleler vard\u0131r: Par\u00e7alanm\u0131\u015f aile, ilgisiz anne, \u015fiddet g\u00f6steren baba, sevgisiz ev.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Biz zannediyoruz ki \u00e7ocu\u011fa en b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck a\u00e7 b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r. Hay\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div>En b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck, onu kalben a\u00e7 b\u0131rakmakt\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Karn\u0131 a\u00e7 olan \u00e7ocuk ekmek \u00e7alar, doyar ve biter.<\/div>\n<div>Ama sevgisi a\u00e7 olan \u00e7ocuk, \u00f6mr\u00fc boyunca \u00e7almaya devam eder.<\/div>\n<div>Kendinde olmayan huzuru, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n huzurunu bozarak almaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>O y\u00fczden bir \u00e7ocuk su\u00e7a bula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sadece o \u00e7ocu\u011fu de\u011fil, o \u00e7ocu\u011fu sevgisiz b\u0131rakan herkesi yarg\u0131lamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Unutmay\u0131n, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa verece\u011finiz bir sar\u0131lma, belki bir \u00f6m\u00fcr hapisten daha cayd\u0131r\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div id=\"m_4909929383080970037ms-outlook-mobile-body-separator-line\" dir=\"ltr\">\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir \u00e7ocuk su\u00e7 i\u015flemeden \u00f6nce, asl\u0131nda toplum o \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 su\u00e7 i\u015flemi\u015ftir. Biz hep sonuca bak\u0131yoruz. Man\u015fete bak\u0131yoruz: &#8220;14 ya\u015f\u0131nda gasp yapt\u0131&#8221;, &#8220;16 ya\u015f\u0131nda yasakl\u0131 maddeden yakaland\u0131.&#8221; K\u0131z\u0131yoruz, lanetliyoruz, &#8220;Nerede bu devlet, nerede bu aile?&#8221; diyoruz. Peki hi\u00e7 ba\u015fa d\u00f6n\u00fcp bak\u0131yor muyuz? O \u00e7ocuk o su\u00e7a nas\u0131l s\u00fcr\u00fcklendi? Sevgi ve g\u00fcven ortam\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fcmeyen bir \u00e7ocuk, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":144247,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[142],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-145095","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ecem-akkus"],"views":47,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145095","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=145095"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145095\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":145096,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/145095\/revisions\/145096"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/144247"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=145095"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=145095"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=145095"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}