{"id":144814,"date":"2026-09-29T10:14:23","date_gmt":"2026-09-29T07:14:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=144814"},"modified":"2026-09-29T10:14:23","modified_gmt":"2026-09-29T07:14:23","slug":"guvende-miyiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2026\/09\/29\/guvende-miyiz\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u00dcVENDE M\u0130Y\u0130Z?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Toplumsal yozla\u015fma nedir?<\/p>\n<p>Toplumsal yozla\u015fma; bir toplumda ahlaki de\u011ferlerin, ortak ya\u015fam kurallar\u0131n\u0131n, g\u00fcven duygusunun ve sosyal sorumluluk bilincinin zaman i\u00e7inde zay\u0131flay\u0131p yok olmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz durum ne yaz\u0131k ki tam olarak budur. \u201cHerkes kendi ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7aresine baks\u0131n\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n yayg\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131, empatinin azalmas\u0131, kurallara uymak yerine onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l \u00e7i\u011fneyece\u011finin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi ve yap\u0131lan her yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n normalle\u015ftirilmesi toplumumuzu g\u00fcnden g\u00fcne yozla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>Do\u011fru ve yanl\u0131\u015f \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fctlerimiz art\u0131k sadece ki\u015fisel \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131m\u0131za g\u00f6re \u015fekilleniyor.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n eline silahlar\u0131n tutu\u015fturuldu\u011fu, \u015fiddetin ve silah bask\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131n kan\u0131ksand\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir iklimde ya\u015f\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n<p>Peki biz kimi kimden koruyaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 yine \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zdan m\u0131 koruyaca\u011f\u0131z?<\/p>\n<p>11 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun silahla gezebildi\u011fi, arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 yaralay\u0131p hayat\u0131na son verebildi\u011fi bir d\u00f6nemde hi\u00e7birimiz -en ba\u015fta da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z- g\u00fcvende de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n<p>Sorunun \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fc toplumsal ayr\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 derinle\u015ftirmek ya da \u015fiddete \u015fiddetle kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k vermek de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm; \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za iyi birer \u00f6rnek olmakta, birbirimizi dinlemekte ve anlamakta yatar.<\/p>\n<p><b>Kurallar\u0131n Anlam\u0131n\u0131 \u00d6\u011fretmeliyiz:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklara kurallar\u0131 sadece \u00e7i\u011fnenmesi gereken engeller olarak de\u011fil, birlikte ya\u015fayabilmemiz i\u00e7in ne kadar hayati olduklar\u0131n\u0131 kavratmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p><b>Empatiyi ve Adaleti Canland\u0131rmal\u0131y\u0131z:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sadece kendi \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 de\u011fil, kamusal fayday\u0131 ve di\u011fer insanlar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmemiz gerekti\u011fini \u00f6nce kendimize hat\u0131rlatmal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p><b>De\u011fi\u015fimi Kendimizden Ba\u015flatmal\u0131y\u0131z:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>G\u00fcvensiz ortamlar en ba\u015fta korkuyu besler. Anne babalar, amcalar, day\u0131lar, yani toplumdaki t\u00fcm yeti\u015fkinler de\u011fi\u015fimi \u00f6nce kendilerinde ba\u015flatmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 daha ilgili, \u015fefkatli ve sorumluluk sahibi olmak zorunday\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Toplum, hepimizin nas\u0131l bir d\u00fcnyada ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirleyen ortak alan\u0131m\u0131zd\u0131r. Gelecek nesillere sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenli bir \u00e7evre b\u0131rakmak istiyorsak, her \u015fey d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fc olmayan bir yola girmeden \u00f6nce bug\u00fcn herkes elini ta\u015f\u0131n alt\u0131na koymal\u0131 ve \u201cBende d\u00fczeltilmesi gereken ne var?\u201d diye kendine sormal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Toplum olarak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenli bir gelecek i\u00e7in bilin\u00e7li ya\u015famak zorunday\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Toplumsal yozla\u015fma nedir? Toplumsal yozla\u015fma; bir toplumda ahlaki de\u011ferlerin, ortak ya\u015fam kurallar\u0131n\u0131n, g\u00fcven duygusunun ve sosyal sorumluluk bilincinin zaman i\u00e7inde zay\u0131flay\u0131p yok olmas\u0131d\u0131r. Bug\u00fcn i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz durum ne yaz\u0131k ki tam olarak budur. \u201cHerkes kendi ba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7aresine baks\u0131n\u201d anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n yayg\u0131nla\u015fmas\u0131, empatinin azalmas\u0131, kurallara uymak yerine onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l \u00e7i\u011fneyece\u011finin d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclmesi ve yap\u0131lan her yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n normalle\u015ftirilmesi toplumumuzu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":144815,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[135],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-144814","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalem-ve-vicdan-nurhayat-oncel"],"views":32,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144814","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=144814"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144814\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":144816,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144814\/revisions\/144816"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/144815"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=144814"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=144814"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=144814"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}