{"id":144720,"date":"2026-09-28T09:36:02","date_gmt":"2026-09-28T06:36:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=144720"},"modified":"2026-09-28T09:36:02","modified_gmt":"2026-09-28T06:36:02","slug":"bilmemiz-gereken-en-onemli-sey-haddimiz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2026\/09\/28\/bilmemiz-gereken-en-onemli-sey-haddimiz\/","title":{"rendered":"B\u0130LMEM\u0130Z GEREKEN EN \u00d6NEML\u0130 \u015eEY: HADD\u0130M\u0130Z"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>Bu d\u00fcnyada mutsuzlu\u011fumuzun, kavgalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, yorgunlu\u011fumuzun \u00e7o\u011fu tek bir \u015feyi unutu\u015fumuzdan kaynaklan\u0131yor: Haddimizi.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Had, bir s\u0131n\u0131r de\u011fildir. Bir edeptir. Bir irfan \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Haddini bilmek, aciz oldu\u011funu bilmek de\u011fildir. Tam tersine, nerede duraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nerede konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nerede susaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmektir. Kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn, bilginin, yerinin fark\u0131nda olmakt\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Bug\u00fcn herkes her \u015feyi biliyor. Herkes her konuda uzman. Doktorun i\u015fine kar\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz, \u00f6\u011fretmene ak\u0131l veriyoruz, m\u00fchendisten iyi bina yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 san\u0131yoruz. Klavyenin ba\u015f\u0131na ge\u00e7ince hakim oluyoruz, savc\u0131 oluyoruz, alim oluyoruz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc haddimizi unuttuk.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Oysa haddini bilmek ne b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fckt\u00fcr.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Haddini bilen insan, bilmedi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemekten utanmaz. &#8220;Bilmiyorum&#8221; diyebilmek, en b\u00fcy\u00fck bilgeli\u011fin ba\u015flang\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Haddini bilen insan, ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmsemez. &#8220;Benim derdim daha b\u00fcy\u00fck&#8221; yar\u0131\u015f\u0131na girmez. Herkesin y\u00fck\u00fcn\u00fcn kendine a\u011f\u0131r oldu\u011funu bilir.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Haddini bilen insan, bir kalbi k\u0131rman\u0131n bir mabedi y\u0131kmak kadar a\u011f\u0131r oldu\u011funu bilir. Bu y\u00fczden diliyle yaralamaz. \u00d6fkesiyle yakmaz.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Haddini bilen evlat, anne babas\u0131na sesini y\u00fckseltmez.<\/div>\n<div>Haddini bilen e\u015f, sevdi\u011fini incitirken iki kere d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/div>\n<div>Haddini bilen kom\u015fu, duvar\u0131n ard\u0131ndaki hayat\u0131n mahremiyetine sayg\u0131 duyar.<\/div>\n<div>Haddini bilen insan, Allah&#8217;a kar\u015f\u0131 haddini bilir; kuluna kar\u015f\u0131 da.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Ne diyordu ya b\u00fcy\u00fckler: &#8220;Haddini bil, hududunu a\u015fma.&#8221;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Biz hududu a\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a d\u00fcnya darald\u0131 bize. Herkesin hayat\u0131na burnumuzu soktuk\u00e7a, herkesin g\u00fcnah\u0131n\u0131n bek\u00e7isi olduk\u00e7a, kendimizi merkeze koyduk\u00e7a yaln\u0131zla\u015ft\u0131k.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Halbuki hayat \u00e7ok basit bir denklem \u00fczerine kurulu:<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Yaradana kar\u015f\u0131 kulluk haddini bileceksin.<\/div>\n<div>\u0130nsana kar\u015f\u0131 insanl\u0131k haddini bileceksin.<\/div>\n<div>Kendine kar\u015f\u0131 da acizlik haddini bileceksin.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>Bunu bildi\u011fin g\u00fcn, kavga bitecek. Bunu bildi\u011fin g\u00fcn, d\u00fcnya hafifleyecek.<\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bu d\u00fcnyada huzur, \u00e7ok bilmekte de\u011fil; haddini bilmekte sakl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n<div id=\"m_8201023973666347595ms-outlook-mobile-body-separator-line\" dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bu d\u00fcnyada mutsuzlu\u011fumuzun, kavgalar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n, yorgunlu\u011fumuzun \u00e7o\u011fu tek bir \u015feyi unutu\u015fumuzdan kaynaklan\u0131yor: Haddimizi. Had, bir s\u0131n\u0131r de\u011fildir. Bir edeptir. Bir irfan \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcd\u00fcr. Haddini bilmek, aciz oldu\u011funu bilmek de\u011fildir. Tam tersine, nerede duraca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nerede konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, nerede susaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmektir. Kendi g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn, bilginin, yerinin fark\u0131nda olmakt\u0131r. Bug\u00fcn herkes her \u015feyi biliyor. Herkes her konuda uzman. Doktorun i\u015fine kar\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz, \u00f6\u011fretmene [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":144247,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[142],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-144720","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-ecem-akkus"],"views":31,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144720","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=144720"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144720\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":144721,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/144720\/revisions\/144721"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/144247"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=144720"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=144720"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=144720"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}