{"id":141060,"date":"2026-08-17T11:47:22","date_gmt":"2026-08-17T08:47:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=141060"},"modified":"2026-08-17T11:47:22","modified_gmt":"2026-08-17T08:47:22","slug":"okul-basarisi-tek-olcut-degil","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2026\/08\/17\/okul-basarisi-tek-olcut-degil\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cOkul Ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 tek \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fct de\u011fil\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

E\u011fitim Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 ve Sosyolog Bar\u0131\u015f Balc\u0131, Penguen Kitabevi\u2019nde d\u00fczenlenen \u201cAkademik Ba\u015far\u0131da Anne Baba Tutumlar\u0131\u201d s\u00f6yle\u015fisinde, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n akademik ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda aile tutumlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekti. Velilerin yo\u011fun ilgi g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi s\u00f6yle\u015fide Balc\u0131; ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma bask\u0131s\u0131ndan teknoloji kullan\u0131m\u0131na, sorumluluk vermekten \u00e7ocuklara rol model olmaya kadar bir\u00e7ok konuda velilere \u00f6nerilerde bulundu.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E\u011fitim Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 ve Sosyolog Bar\u0131\u015f Balc\u0131, Penguen Kitabevi\u2019nde \u201cAkademik Ba\u015far\u0131da Anne Baba Tutumlar\u0131\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u00f6yle\u015fi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirdi. Velilerin yo\u011fun ilgi g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi programda Balc\u0131, akademik ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n yaln\u0131zca ders ve s\u0131nav sonu\u00e7lar\u0131ndan ibaret olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirterek, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sosyal, duygusal ve g\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015fam becerilerinin de desteklenmesi gerekti\u011fini vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u201cS\u00fcrekli ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f demek i\u015fe yaram\u0131yor\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklara anne babalar\u0131n\u0131n en \u00e7ok hangi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131ndan \u015fik\u00e2yet ettikleri soruldu\u011funda; \u201cders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u201d bask\u0131s\u0131, fazla m\u00fcdahale, teknoloji yasaklar\u0131 ve ba\u015fka \u00e7ocuklarla k\u0131yaslanman\u0131n \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Balc\u0131, s\u00fcrekli ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma telkininin ters tepebilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n

Balc\u0131, \u201cBula\u015f\u0131k makinesi \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131yorsa d\u00fc\u011fmesine tekrar tekrar bas\u0131p \u2018\u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u2019 demenin bir faydas\u0131 yok. Bunun gibi velilerin \u00f6\u011frencilere bask\u0131 uygulay\u0131p s\u00fcrekli \u2018ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u2019 demesi de i\u015fe yaramayacakt\u0131r. Hatta ters tepki de g\u00f6sterebilirler\u201d ifadelerini kulland\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu t\u00fcr sorunlar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne ge\u00e7ebilmek i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan itibaren kazand\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirten Balc\u0131; d\u00fczenli ders tekrar\u0131, kitap okuma ve sorumluluk alma al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fiminde \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ocuk kendi sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131 yerine getirmeli\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n kendi yapmalar\u0131 gereken i\u015fleri kendilerinin yapmas\u0131n\u0131n problem \u00e7\u00f6zme becerilerini geli\u015ftirdi\u011fini ifade eden Balc\u0131, anne babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n yerine her i\u015fi yapmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocu\u011fun zorluklarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n ve kendi ayaklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde durmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmesinin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu belirten Balc\u0131, \u201cBir\u00e7ok \u015feyi \u00e7ocu\u011fun yerine anne baba yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman \u00e7ocuk o rahata ve konfora al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor. Daha sonra zorluklarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bocalayabiliyor\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

Balc\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun odas\u0131n\u0131 toplamak gibi g\u00fcnl\u00fck sorumluluklar\u0131n da \u00e7ocu\u011fa b\u0131rak\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirterek, anne babalar\u0131n bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te sab\u0131rl\u0131 olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini vurgulad\u0131.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ocuklar s\u00f6ylediklerinizi de\u011fil, g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerini yapar\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f6yle\u015fide anne babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in rol model olmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine de dikkat \u00e7ekildi. Balc\u0131, \u201c\u00c7ocuklar s\u00f6yleneni de\u011fil, g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerini yaparlar\u201d diyerek, anne babalar\u0131n kendi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u00f6rnek olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini ifade etti.<\/p>\n

Kitap okuyan anne babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda da kitaba y\u00f6nelik ilginin geli\u015febilece\u011fini belirten Balc\u0131, telefonla a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ilgilenmeyen ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na da bu konuda olumlu \u00f6rnek olabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

Evde kurallar ve tutarl\u0131 tutum \u00f6nemli<\/strong><\/p>\n

Evde net kurallar ve s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n bulunmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sorumluluk bilincinin geli\u015fmesi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu belirten Balc\u0131, anne babalar\u0131n ortak ve tutarl\u0131 bir tutum sergilemesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n yat\u0131\u015f ve kalk\u0131\u015f saatlerinin d\u00fczenli olmas\u0131, kitap okumas\u0131, ders tekrar\u0131 yapmas\u0131, kendi yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131 toplamas\u0131, okul \u00e7antas\u0131n\u0131 haz\u0131rlamas\u0131, yemekten \u00f6nce ellerini y\u0131kamas\u0131 ve yemekten sonra di\u015flerini f\u0131r\u00e7alamas\u0131 gibi al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131n k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan itibaren kazand\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n ilerleyen ya\u015flarda da fayda sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirtti.<\/p>\n

Teknoloji kullan\u0131m\u0131nda da s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n belirlenmesi gerekti\u011fini ifade eden Balc\u0131, g\u00fcnl\u00fck teknoloji kullan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131n iki saati a\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan olumsuz sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furabilece\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

\u201cSa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim dozunda kullan\u0131lan ila\u00e7 gibidir\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Balc\u0131, \u00e7ocuklarla ileti\u015fimde do\u011fru mesafenin kurulmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekerek, bunu kirpi ailesi \u00fczerinden anlatt\u0131. Kirpilerin birbirlerine fazla yakla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131nda dikenleri nedeniyle canlar\u0131n\u0131n ac\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve uzakla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 belirten Balc\u0131, tekrar yakla\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131nda ayn\u0131 durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, sonunda ise birbirlerini incitmeyecekleri uygun mesafeyi \u00f6\u011frendiklerini ifade etti.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklarla ileti\u015fimde beden dilinin de en az kullan\u0131lan kelimeler kadar \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu vurgulayan Balc\u0131, velilere \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla konu\u015furken g\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurmalar\u0131, g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemeleri ve onlar\u0131 dikkatle dinlemeleri \u00f6nerisinde bulundu.<\/p>\n

\u201cKaya gibi de\u011fil, saz gibi esnek olun\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Anne babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 esnek davranmas\u0131n\u0131n da \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Balc\u0131, \u201cKaya gibi sert olmaktansa suyun ak\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re hareket eden sazlar gibi esnek olmak gerekiyor\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

Ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemlerini ve de\u011fi\u015fen ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 dikkate alarak tutumlar\u0131n\u0131 gerekti\u011finde yeniden de\u011ferlendirmeleri gerekti\u011fini ifade etti.<\/p>\n

\u201cOkul ve s\u0131nav ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 tek \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fct olmamal\u0131\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n yaln\u0131zca s\u0131nav ve okul ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131 \u00fczerinden de\u011ferlendirilmemesi gerekti\u011fini vurgulayan Balc\u0131, her \u00e7ocu\u011fun farkl\u0131 \u00f6zelliklere ve yeteneklere sahip oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sosyal becerileri, ileti\u015fim g\u00fcc\u00fc, problem \u00e7\u00f6zme yetene\u011fi, duygusal zek\u00e2s\u0131, \u00f6z y\u00f6netim ve karar verme becerileri ile dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n da dikkate al\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini belirten Balc\u0131, \u201cHer biri parmak izi gibi birbirinden ayr\u0131 ve biricik. Onlar\u0131n iyi olduklar\u0131 alanlara ve becerilerine odaklanmam\u0131z, olumlu y\u00f6nlerini daha fazla g\u00f6rmemiz gerekiyor\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n

\u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn kararlar\u0131 \u00e7ocuklara b\u0131rakmay\u0131n\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n spor ve sanat etkinliklerine y\u00f6nlendirilmesini, bir enstr\u00fcman \u00e7almalar\u0131n\u0131n veya bir spor dal\u0131yla ilgilenmelerinin desteklenmesini \u00f6neren Balc\u0131, baz\u0131 durumlarda karar verme s\u00fcrecinde ebeveynlerin daha aktif olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n her zaman do\u011fru tercihi yapamayabilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7eken Balc\u0131, anne babalar\u0131n kendi deneyimlerinden yararlanarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na rehberlik etmelerinin \u00f6nemine de\u011findi.<\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n her istediklerinin yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n da do\u011fru olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirten Balc\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n anne babalar\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131 s\u0131ra \u00f6\u011fretmenleri ve g\u00fcvendikleri di\u011fer yeti\u015fkinlerin deneyimlerinden faydalanmas\u0131n\u0131n, kendilerini bulma s\u00fcre\u00e7lerine katk\u0131 sa\u011flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ifade etti.<\/p>\n

\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu ko\u015fulsuz sevin\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

Balc\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yaln\u0131zca maddi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131n\u0131n yeterli olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 belirterek, sevgi ve sayg\u0131n\u0131n da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fiminde \u00f6nemli bir yere sahip oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi.<\/p>\n

Anne babas\u0131n\u0131n sevgisini ve deste\u011fini arkas\u0131nda hisseden \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n akademik s\u00fcre\u00e7te daha \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli olabildi\u011fini ifade eden Balc\u0131, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ko\u015fulsuz sevildiklerini bilmelerinin \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekti.<\/p>\n

Yaz aylar\u0131nda i\u015f deneyimi \u00f6nerisi<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f6yle\u015fide \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n yaz aylar\u0131nda ya\u015flar\u0131na uygun i\u015flerde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck de olsa sorumluluk almalar\u0131n\u0131n sa\u011flayabilece\u011fi kazan\u0131mlara da de\u011finen Balc\u0131, para al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fi yapmak, insanlarla ileti\u015fim kurmak ve kendi eme\u011finin kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kazanmak gibi deneyimlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ileride ger\u00e7ek i\u015f hayat\u0131na uyum sa\u011flamalar\u0131na katk\u0131da bulunabilece\u011fini belirtti.<\/p>\n

Sa\u011fl\u0131k kontrollerine dikkat \u00e7ekti<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n akademik ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda sa\u011fl\u0131k durumunun da g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmemesi gerekti\u011fini belirten Balc\u0131, \u00f6zellikle g\u00f6rme sorunlar\u0131n\u0131n okul ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 etkileyebilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekti. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n d\u00fczenli sa\u011fl\u0131k kontrollerinin yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6neren Balc\u0131, gerekli durumlarda aile hekimi de\u011ferlendirmesiyle kan tahlilleri yap\u0131larak B12, D Vitamini gibi de\u011ferlerinin takip edilmesinin \u00f6nemine de\u011findi.<\/p>\n

Leyla Balc\u0131 kendi deneyimlerini payla\u015ft\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n

Etkinlikte Bar\u0131\u015f Balc\u0131\u2019n\u0131n e\u015fi Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 Leyla Balc\u0131 da, kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n geli\u015fim s\u00fcrecindeki deneyimlerini kat\u0131l\u0131mc\u0131 velilerle payla\u015ft\u0131. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 bask\u0131lamadan onlara sevgi ve ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fc ile yakla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nerdi.<\/p>\n

S\u00f6yle\u015fi, velilerin sorular\u0131 ve Bar\u0131\u015f Balc\u0131\u2019n\u0131n de\u011ferlendirmeleriyle sona erdi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

E\u011fitim Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 ve Sosyolog Bar\u0131\u015f Balc\u0131, Penguen Kitabevi\u2019nde d\u00fczenlenen \u201cAkademik Ba\u015far\u0131da Anne Baba Tutumlar\u0131\u201d s\u00f6yle\u015fisinde, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n akademik ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131nda aile tutumlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemine dikkat \u00e7ekti. Velilerin yo\u011fun ilgi g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi s\u00f6yle\u015fide Balc\u0131; ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma bask\u0131s\u0131ndan teknoloji kullan\u0131m\u0131na, sorumluluk vermekten \u00e7ocuklara rol model olmaya kadar bir\u00e7ok konuda velilere \u00f6nerilerde bulundu. E\u011fitim Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 ve Sosyolog Bar\u0131\u015f Balc\u0131, Penguen Kitabevi\u2019nde \u201cAkademik […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":141061,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-141060","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gundem"],"views":102,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141060","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=141060"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141060\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":141062,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/141060\/revisions\/141062"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/141061"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=141060"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=141060"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=141060"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}