{"id":126845,"date":"2026-03-03T18:29:30","date_gmt":"2026-03-03T15:29:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=126845"},"modified":"2026-03-03T18:29:30","modified_gmt":"2026-03-03T15:29:30","slug":"kendin-olabilmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2026\/03\/03\/kendin-olabilmek\/","title":{"rendered":"KEND\u0130N OLAB\u0130LMEK&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kendin olmay\u0131 se\u00e7mek, toplum taraf\u0131ndan kolay kabul edilemeyen bir durumdur.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>Evet, kendi do\u011frular\u0131m\u0131zla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, en sevdiklerimiz d\u00e2hil olmak \u00fczere insanlar taraf\u0131ndan yarg\u0131lan\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>Toplumun kabul etti\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmak istedi\u011fimizde, kendimiz olmak \u201cyanl\u0131\u015f\u201d hissettirilir. Oysa herkesin kabul etti\u011fi \u015feyler bizi mutlu etmiyorsa, kendimiz olmaktan vazge\u00e7memeliyiz.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayat bizlere verilmi\u015f olan tek \u015fans\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>\u015eans\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n beklentilerine g\u00f6re yok saymak zorunda de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>Genel d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceler gri rengin s\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 ve i\u00e7 karartan renk oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi\u011fi i\u00e7in gri rengi sevmekten geri durmamal\u0131y\u0131z.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>Toplum fazla g\u00fcl\u00fcmsemenin, kahkaha atman\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015f oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yledi\u011fi i\u00e7in vazge\u00e7memeliyiz. Kendimiz olmak kahkaha atmaksa, gri rengi \u00e7ok sevmekse \u00f6yle ya\u015fayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015faman\u0131n g\u00fczelli\u011fi bast\u0131r\u0131lmakla de\u011fil, \u00f6zg\u00fcrce ve mutlu olarak ya\u015fayabilmektedir.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>Bu hayat ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n kal\u0131plar\u0131na s\u0131\u011fmak, sevilmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ok k\u0131sa.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>Herkes taraf\u0131ndan onaylanmak zorunda de\u011filiz.<\/p>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<div dir=\"ltr\"><\/div>\n<p>Bazen kendi mutlulu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in tek ba\u015f\u0131na y\u00fcr\u00fcmek gerekir. Yolun sonuna vard\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda \u201ciyi ki\u201d kendim olmu\u015fum diyebilmek i\u00e7in\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kendin olmay\u0131 se\u00e7mek, toplum taraf\u0131ndan kolay kabul edilemeyen bir durumdur. Evet, kendi do\u011frular\u0131m\u0131zla ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, en sevdiklerimiz d\u00e2hil olmak \u00fczere insanlar taraf\u0131ndan yarg\u0131lan\u0131r\u0131z. Toplumun kabul etti\u011fi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerin d\u0131\u015f\u0131na \u00e7\u0131kmak istedi\u011fimizde, kendimiz olmak \u201cyanl\u0131\u015f\u201d hissettirilir. Oysa herkesin kabul etti\u011fi \u015feyler bizi mutlu etmiyorsa, kendimiz olmaktan vazge\u00e7memeliyiz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hayat bizlere verilmi\u015f olan tek \u015fans\u0131m\u0131z de\u011fil mi? \u015eans\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":19,"featured_media":126812,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[135],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-126845","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kalem-ve-vicdan-nurhayat-oncel"],"views":399,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126845","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/19"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=126845"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126845\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":126846,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/126845\/revisions\/126846"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/126812"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=126845"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=126845"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=126845"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}