{"id":110824,"date":"2025-10-05T10:07:22","date_gmt":"2025-10-05T07:07:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/?p=110824"},"modified":"2025-10-05T10:07:22","modified_gmt":"2025-10-05T07:07:22","slug":"cemiyet-aile-ve-ailenin-temeli-kadin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/2025\/10\/05\/cemiyet-aile-ve-ailenin-temeli-kadin\/","title":{"rendered":"CEM\u0130YET, A\u0130LE VE A\u0130LEN\u0130N TEMEL\u0130 KADIN"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Aile, e\u011fitim, siyaset gibi kurumlar kendi i\u00e7inde ve di\u011fer kurumlarla kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkileri sonucunda cemiyeti meydana getirir.<\/div>\n
Aile m\u00fcessesesi toplumsal kurumlar aras\u0131nda en \u00f6nemlisidir.<\/div>\n
Her toplumda aile m\u00fcessesi mevcuttur. Fakat aile m\u00fcessesinin fertler \u00fczerindeki tesiri ayn\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/div>\n
Aile en genel manada; akrabal\u0131k ili\u015fkisiyle birbirine ba\u011flanan fertlerin bir araya getirdikleri topluluktur.<\/div>\n
Aile, ferdin ya\u015fam\u0131nda \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir yer tutan beslenme, bak\u0131m, sevgi ihtiyac\u0131, duygusal geli\u015fim, psikolojik geli\u015fim, e\u011fitim, k\u00fclt\u00fcrel de\u011ferleri kazanma, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 zek\u00e2 geli\u015fimini s\u00fcrd\u00fcrme gibi temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131 birincil yer ve \u00e7evredir.<\/div>\n
Toplumun sa\u011flam temeller \u00fczerinde durmas\u0131 aile kurumunun sa\u011flam olmas\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Aile kurumunu y\u00f6nlendiren cemiyetler asl\u0131nda gelece\u011fini \u015fekillendirmi\u015f olur.<\/div>\n
Ailenin korunmas\u0131 da aile fertlerinin kendilerini korumalar\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r. Cemiyet ailelerden, aile de fertlerden olu\u015fmu\u015ftur.<\/div>\n
Aile, ferdin toplumsal \u00e7evresinin ilk ve en \u00f6nemli boyutunu olu\u015fturur.<\/div>\n
\u00c7ocu\u011fun, toplumun beklentilerine uygun bir fert olarak yeti\u015fmesi ailede ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilir. Fertlerin mutlu ve huzurlu olmalar\u0131, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir aile ya\u015fam\u0131na ba\u011fl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Toplumsal bir kurum olan aile, cemiyetin vazge\u00e7ilmez bir par\u00e7as\u0131, temel yap\u0131ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131r. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir toplum, sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ailelerden olu\u015fur.<\/div>\n
Toplum sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ve istikrarl\u0131 ise, bu aileden kaynaklan\u0131r; ailedeki yozla\u015fma do\u011frudan do\u011fruya toplumun yozla\u015fmas\u0131na neden olur.<\/div>\n
Toplumumuzun daha ya\u015fan\u0131las\u0131 bir cemiyet olmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsak, \u00f6ncelikle kendimize \u00e7eki d\u00fczen verece\u011fiz; sonra toplumun \u00e7ekirde\u011fi olan ailemize. Toplumsal d\u00fczen aileden ba\u015flar.<\/div>\n
\u0130slam anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re; Aile cemiyetin, kad\u0131n da ailenin temelidir.<\/div>\n
Kad\u0131n haklar\u0131 konusunda \u0130slam\u2019\u0131n ortaya koydu\u011fu prensipler hi\u00e7bir sistemin ula\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131 kadar y\u00fcce, a\u00e7\u0131k ve nettir.<\/div>\n
Bu sebeple \u0130slamiyet\u2019te kad\u0131na b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem verilmi\u015f, ona \u015fahsiyet kazand\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/div>\n
\u0130lk defa \u0130slamiyet kad\u0131na \u201c\u0130NSAN\u201d olarak de\u011fer vermi\u015f, ona \u201cm\u00fclkiyet\u201d, \u201cmiras\u201d, \u201ce\u015fitlik\u201d, \u201c\u00f6\u011frenme\u201d hakk\u0131 tan\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/div>\n
\u0130slamiyet\u2019in getirdi\u011fi tabii haklardan faydalanmada kad\u0131n erkek ay\u0131r\u0131m\u0131 yap\u0131lmam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Dini a\u00e7\u0131dan m\u00fckellefiyet ve sorumluluk; d\u00fcnyevi a\u00e7\u0131dan su\u00e7 i\u015fleme, su\u00e7 ve sald\u0131r\u0131lara kar\u015f\u0131 korunmada kad\u0131n-erkek aras\u0131nda tam bir e\u015fitlik getirilmi\u015ftir.<\/div>\n
\u0130slamiyet\u2019te kad\u0131n art\u0131k utan\u0131lacak bir yarat\u0131k de\u011fil, \u201ce\u015fref-i mahluk\u00e2t = yarat\u0131lm\u0131\u015flar\u0131n en \u015fereflisi\u201d olmaya namzet bir varl\u0131kt\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Nitekim y\u00fcce \u0130slam dinine ilk inanan da, Allah yolunda can\u0131n\u0131 feda eden ilk M\u00fcsl\u00fcman \u015fehit de kad\u0131nd\u0131r.<\/div>\n
\u0130slam\u2019\u0131n ilk d\u00f6nemlerinde M\u00fcsl\u00fcman olmayanlar y\u0131llar y\u0131l\u0131 devam eden anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131 gere\u011fince yeni do\u011fan k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 diri-diri kumlara g\u00f6mmeye devam ediyor, anne babalar bundan hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc duymuyorlard\u0131.<\/div>\n
Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hak k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu istemeyenleri \u015f\u00f6yle uyarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:<\/div>\n
\u201cOnlardan birine bir k\u0131z\u0131 do\u011fdu\u011fu m\u00fcjdelendi\u011finde \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcr ve y\u00fcz\u00fc simsiyah kesilir. Bak h\u00fckmedegeldikleri bu \u015fey ne k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr:\u201d (Nahl suresi ayet: 58, 59).<\/div>\n
Peygamberimiz (SAV) in : \u201cKim iki k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funu erginli\u011fe eri\u015finceye kadar besleyip b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcrse, k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fcnde ikimiz onunla beraber olaca\u011f\u0131z.\u201d m\u00fcjdesi \u0130sl\u00e2miyet\u2019in kad\u0131nlara verdi\u011fi de\u011feri g\u00f6stermektedir.<\/div>\n
Kuran-\u0131 Kerim\u2019de iki b\u00fcy\u00fck sureye \u201cMeryem\u201d ve \u201cNisa\u201d ad\u0131 verilmesi bunun ispat\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n
\u0130slamiyet\u2019e g\u00f6re kad\u0131n Annedir. Cennet onun ayaklar\u0131 alt\u0131nda, onun r\u0131zas\u0131ndad\u0131r.<\/div>\n
\u201cAnne insanlar i\u00e7erisinde ihsan ve ikrama en lay\u0131k oland\u0131r.\u201d<\/div>\n
\u0130slamiyet\u2019te kad\u0131n Es’tir. Zorluklara g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs geren, s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 gideren, karanl\u0131klar\u0131 a\u011fartan g\u00fcne\u015ftir.<\/div>\n
Kad\u0131n, yuvan\u0131n temel dire\u011fidir.<\/div>\n
Cen\u00e2b-u Allah : \u201cM\u00fc\u2019min erkekler ve kad\u0131nlar(aile i\u00e7erisinde) birbirlerinin velileridirler.\u201d buyuruyor. (Tevbe suresi. Ayet: 7I)<\/div>\n
Ba\u015fka bir Ayet-i Kerimede : \u201cErkeklerin kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131 oldu\u011fu gibi, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n da erkekler \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201d buyruluyor.(Bakara suresi. Ayet:228).<\/div>\n
Bu haklar kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 sevgi, sayg\u0131 ve birbirlerinin haklar\u0131na riayettir.<\/div>\n
Peygamberimiz : \u201cKocas\u0131 kendisinden raz\u0131 oldu\u011fu halde \u00f6len her kad\u0131n cennettedir.\u201d buyuruyor.<\/div>\n
Ba\u015fka bir Hadis-i \u015eerifte de: \u201cS\u0131r\u00e7alar kadar ince ve nazik olan kad\u0131nlara ihtimam ve dikkat g\u00f6steriniz!\u201d buyruluyor.<\/div>\n
Peygamberimiz, Veda hutbesinde b\u00fct\u00fcn insanlara \u015fu vasiyeti b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r:<\/div>\n
\u201cEy insanlar! Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zetmenizi ve bu hususta Allah\u2019tan korkman\u0131z\u0131 tavsiye ederim.<\/div>\n
Siz kad\u0131nlar\u0131 Allah\u2019\u0131n emaneti olarak ald\u0131n\u0131z. Onlar\u0131n namuslar\u0131n\u0131 ve iffetlerini Allah ad\u0131na s\u00f6z vererek helal edindiniz.<\/div>\n
Sizin kad\u0131nlar \u00fczerinde haklar\u0131n\u0131z, onlar\u0131n da sizin \u00fczerinizde haklar\u0131 vard\u0131r.\u201d<\/div>\n
\u0130\u015fte bu anlay\u0131\u015f: Kad\u0131n\u0131 istenildi\u011fi gibi tasarruf edilmekten, lanetlenmekten ve reklam arac\u0131 olarak kullan\u0131lmaktan kurtarm\u0131\u015f ANNE olmu\u015f kutsalla\u015fm\u0131\u015f, \u201cE\u015e\u201d olmu\u015f, e\u015fitlik ve de\u011fer kazanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/div>\n
\u0130slamiyet\u2019in \u201ckad\u0131n haklar\u0131\u201d konusunda getirdi\u011fi ger\u00e7ek de\u011fer be\u015feri sistemlerin hala ula\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131 bir y\u00fcce seviyedir.<\/div>\n
Aile i\u00e7inde kad\u0131n: \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 yeti\u015ftiren anne, ailenin iffetini koruyan e\u015f\u2019tir.<\/div>\n
Bug\u00fcn erkeklerimize oldu\u011fu kadar kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131za d\u00fc\u015fen pek \u00e7ok g\u00f6revler vard\u0131r.<\/div>\n
M\u00fcsl\u00fcman T\u00fcrk kad\u0131n\u0131 bu g\u00f6revlerin ne oldu\u011funu iyi bilmeli ve sorunuzda bahsetti\u011finiz kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n reklam arac\u0131 olmaktan kurtar\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z:<\/div>\n
Anadolu\u2019da ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 k\u00f6y\u00fcn erkekleri sava\u015fa gittikleri zaman silahlar\u0131n\u0131 ku\u015fan\u0131p k\u00f6ylerini koruyan kad\u0131nlar toplulu\u011fu,d\u00fcnyan\u0131n ilk kad\u0131n \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc olan (Bac\u0131yan-\u0131 R\u00fbm = Anadolu bac\u0131lar\u0131 ) \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fc kurarak Ahili\u011fin kurucusu e\u015fi Ahi Evran\u2019la omuz omuza ekonomik ve sosyal hayatta \u00fclkesi i\u00e7in \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, Anadolu\u2019nun T\u00fcrkle\u015fmesi ve \u0130slamla\u015fmas\u0131nda b\u00fcy\u00fck rol oynayan Fatma Bac\u0131’lar\u0131na m\u00fccadelesinden \u00f6rnek almal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z;<\/div>\n
Kurtulu\u015f Sava\u015f\u0131ndaki Halide onba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n, \u00c7anakkale cephesindeki Nezahat onba\u015f\u0131n\u0131n, Cepheye mermi ta\u015f\u0131yan \u015eerife bac\u0131n\u0131n, Balkan sava\u015f\u0131ndaki Kara Fatma\u2019n\u0131n, kurtulu\u015f sava\u015f\u0131nda erkek k\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na girerek \u00e7arp\u0131\u015fmalara kat\u0131lan Halime \u00c7avu\u015flar\u0131n torunlar\u0131 olarak T\u00fcrkl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ve \u0130slaml\u0131\u011f\u0131n kendilerine sundu\u011fu de\u011ferlerini bilmeli, onurlar\u0131n\u0131 korumal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z ve k\u0131zlar\u0131m\u0131z;<\/div>\n
93 harbi olarak an\u0131lan 1877 \u2013 1878 Osmanl\u0131-Rus sava\u015f\u0131 s\u0131ras\u0131nda Erzurum\u2019daki Aziziye Tabyas\u0131n\u0131n savunmas\u0131 i\u00e7in e\u015fi askerde iken kollar\u0131nda \u015fehit verdi\u011fi a\u011fabeyini ve 3 ayl\u0131k bebe\u011fini emzirip b\u0131rakarak Aziziye tabyas\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015fman eline ge\u00e7memesi i\u00e7in ko\u015fan 20 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki gelin Nene Hatun’lar\u0131na kahramanl\u0131klar\u0131ndan \u00f6rnek almal\u0131, \u00fclkemizi b\u00f6lmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan ter\u00f6r \u00f6rg\u00fct\u00fc yanda\u015flar\u0131 olan milletvekili-sokak eylemcisi-canl\u0131 bomba-vatan haini kad\u0131nlar\u0131 ibretle izlemeli ve bundan ders \u00e7\u0131karmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/div>\n
Aile cemiyetin, kad\u0131n da ailenin temelidir.<\/div>\n
Ho\u015f\u00e7a kal\u0131n\u0131z.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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Aile, e\u011fitim, siyaset gibi kurumlar kendi i\u00e7inde ve di\u011fer kurumlarla kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkileri sonucunda cemiyeti meydana getirir. Aile m\u00fcessesesi toplumsal kurumlar aras\u0131nda en \u00f6nemlisidir. Her toplumda aile m\u00fcessesi mevcuttur. Fakat aile m\u00fcessesinin fertler \u00fczerindeki tesiri ayn\u0131 de\u011fildir. Aile en genel manada; akrabal\u0131k ili\u015fkisiyle birbirine ba\u011flanan fertlerin bir araya getirdikleri topluluktur. Aile, ferdin ya\u015fam\u0131nda \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":109161,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-110824","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gazi-mert"],"views":133,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110824","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/11"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=110824"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110824\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":110825,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/110824\/revisions\/110825"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/109161"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=110824"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=110824"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mersingazetesi.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=110824"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}